Kail Lowry

Like that's where I, that's how I grew up.

So when I think of scholarships, that's sort of the mind, that's where I'm, where it's coming from.

It's like, what if I don't have the money to send my kids to college?

But on the flip side of it, I do get what you're saying.

Um, but what,

I guess more so for the parents who they have to rely on a scholarship that's going to get their kids to college because they can't afford it otherwise.

What do you do in a situation like that?

Like for you, for example, you and your twin, you said your parents couldn't put twins through college at the same time.

And you were better at basketball, but you ended up with football.

It's like, but you were better at basketball.

But I think that what you're saying is so important.

And I think it only works for parents who are self-aware.

A hundred percent, especially about their parenting.

I'm not an in denial parent.

I am very, I am not like, I literally looked at Elijah and I said, if we're going to do gymnastics with Valley, I want to do it now.

And I want to decide one, does she like it?

And two, if she's good at it, if she doesn't like it and she's not good at it, we don't need to do it, but let's explore all the things to see.

But I am not going to invest money in something and force my kid to do something that they don't want to do because that's money out of my pocket and you're miserable.

So for me, when people ask me that, I'm like, it's a no brainer for me.

I'm, I'm setting them up for everything they want to play.