Kail Lowry

uh my wife she it made sense to her because she had already knew it right because you know she knew she she already knew it like she called me a narcissist when she left out the door she had already i think her aunt um put her on her aunt had dealt with a narcissistic husband or whatever and put her own

I think he might be a narcissist and that type of stuff.

So she already knew what it was even before I did.

So I didn't know anything about narcissism or narcissistic abuse or toxic relationships or anything like that until after I got diagnosed and I started doing TikToks.

It's emotional.

Well, it could be physical abuse as well, but it's like emotional abuse, but it's like on a deeper psychological level.

it takes you through the rangers.

It changes you.

It changes the core of your person.

There's a cycle of narcissistic abuse.

It typically starts with love bombing.

Idealization, love bombing.

They pick you.

They idealize you.

They put you on this pedestal.

but they love bomb you.

They give you everything you want.

You see this person for, God, this person, this is the perfect person for me.

Then once the love bombing ends, they start devaluing you.

They take the love away.