Kail Lowry
๐ค SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
You're like, oh, that means the world to me.
In the stage of a normal relationship, yeah, there's typically tell-off.
It falls off because you're not going to have this burning hot heat the whole time, right?
I mean, some people could.
But it's just like the intention behind the actions, right?
So when I look back at it, my previous relationships, there wasn't any intent on getting rid of people.
There was intent on loving them because they made me feel good.
So as long as you make me feel good, I make you feel good.
But then when I no longer see you as perfect, I call it flaws, right?
Everybody has flaws.
Flaws don't mean anything.
You can set a boundary.
You can say no.
When you normally say yes, now you say no.
I'm like, wait, what?
You're not perfect anymore to me.
How dare you say no to me?
You should say yes to this.
Why don't you like this?
You know, so once you say no, once you set a boundary, once you no longer fit this perfect criteria, that's when they start taking the love away.