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Kail Lowry

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

Because if it wasn't, nobody would choose just to be gay, just to be gay.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

It's easier said than done. I also think that people are homophobic and don't realize they're homophobic. They don't understand why they're homophobic. They just have been taught their whole lives that it's not natural and to be gay or to be part of the queer community. And I think that they have to understand that first. And that takes a certain level of self-awareness to even get to that point.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

It's easier said than done. I also think that people are homophobic and don't realize they're homophobic. They don't understand why they're homophobic. They just have been taught their whole lives that it's not natural and to be gay or to be part of the queer community. And I think that they have to understand that first. And that takes a certain level of self-awareness to even get to that point.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

It's easier said than done. I also think that people are homophobic and don't realize they're homophobic. They don't understand why they're homophobic. They just have been taught their whole lives that it's not natural and to be gay or to be part of the queer community. And I think that they have to understand that first. And that takes a certain level of self-awareness to even get to that point.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

And so there's a lot of work that needs to be done. But like I said earlier, I think when you have kids, you have to choose to love them unconditionally because you cannot control who they love. You cannot control what their sexuality is. And for me, I never gave a fuck. I, if you came home and told me that you wanted to marry a woman, cool. You tell me you want to marry a man. Cool.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

And so there's a lot of work that needs to be done. But like I said earlier, I think when you have kids, you have to choose to love them unconditionally because you cannot control who they love. You cannot control what their sexuality is. And for me, I never gave a fuck. I, if you came home and told me that you wanted to marry a woman, cool. You tell me you want to marry a man. Cool.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

And so there's a lot of work that needs to be done. But like I said earlier, I think when you have kids, you have to choose to love them unconditionally because you cannot control who they love. You cannot control what their sexuality is. And for me, I never gave a fuck. I, if you came home and told me that you wanted to marry a woman, cool. You tell me you want to marry a man. Cool.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

I don't give a fuck because at the end of the day, that part does not affect me or my life. It only affects you and who you love is who you love at the end of the day. I'm not going to sever a relationship with my child based off of who he loves or doesn't love. Right. I'm not going to forfeit a relationship with you because I don't โ€“ but I also don't think that way either.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

I don't give a fuck because at the end of the day, that part does not affect me or my life. It only affects you and who you love is who you love at the end of the day. I'm not going to sever a relationship with my child based off of who he loves or doesn't love. Right. I'm not going to forfeit a relationship with you because I don't โ€“ but I also don't think that way either.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

I don't give a fuck because at the end of the day, that part does not affect me or my life. It only affects you and who you love is who you love at the end of the day. I'm not going to sever a relationship with my child based off of who he loves or doesn't love. Right. I'm not going to forfeit a relationship with you because I don't โ€“ but I also don't think that way either.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

Like I am also โ€“ I love who I love. I've been with women. I've been with men.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

Like I am also โ€“ I love who I love. I've been with women. I've been with men.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

Like I am also โ€“ I love who I love. I've been with women. I've been with men.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

Because sometimes you don't even know someone's gay.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

Because sometimes you don't even know someone's gay.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

Because sometimes you don't even know someone's gay.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

I think that there is a stigma surrounding the queer community, the gay community, that is like you're different.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

I think that there is a stigma surrounding the queer community, the gay community, that is like you're different.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

I think that there is a stigma surrounding the queer community, the gay community, that is like you're different.

Barely Famous
From Isaac to Elliott: A Story About Identity and Boundaries

Again, like, I can't put myself there because I don't have those same, like, thoughts or concerns. Just, like, I just never cared.