Kail

But we don't really know.

Like, it just feels like you might come back and be like, I did this despite you, not because of you.

Oh, it's just so like when I think about my own childhood and my mom was, you know, married by like legal marriage or common law marriage seven times that I can remember maybe even more.

And I'm like, honestly, that wasn't traumatizing for me.

That part of it that I read so often about myself is that I've traumatized you.

I'm traumatizing my kids.

This is awful.

People don't like me because I have kids with four men and I'm dating again.

And I don't feel traumatized, but that doesn't mean that you won't be traumatized.

That doesn't mean that Lincoln and Lux and Creed and everybody won't be traumatized.

And so I just worry about you guys.

And I never want something that I do to negatively impact

impact or traumatize or affect you that would that you have to recover from it right because i do think that there are things that you that could happen in your life that you don't necessarily like again impact but i don't want you to have to recover from things that i've done or things that i've said or people that i've dated like i don't want you to have to recover and that's how i look at it with you so what how do you look at it with me that you're just figuring it out you look at me now that way

Yeah.

So you've kind of given me grace, you feel like.

Were you upset with me yesterday when I told you about your time management thing?

You can be, both can be true.

You can be upset with what I'm saying and what I'm saying can also be true.

Just for context, Elliot, he's in drama club.

And if he does not send me the schedule for drama club and it's not on the calendar, I am operating as if he's not going to drama club.