Kail

And that is why the time management in the calendar is a necessity at all times for every person in our family.

You know, been there with your mom.

Yeah, exactly.

I'm just like exactly like her.

But it is very important to add things to a calendar so that everyone is in the know, especially with a family our size.

Like it's very challenging.

And Elliot, we I was getting ready for bed one night and Elliot comes into my bathroom and I my my like.

owner's sweet bathroom is, is pretty big.

And so he's sitting at my vanity in my vanity chair and I'm like leaned up against the counter and he's telling me about permissive parenting and authoritative, authoritative parenting and things like that.

And then he was talking about meeting needs of your children.

And he was, one of those things was like emotional needs.

And I think so often, especially in a family of seven, it can be very difficult with different personalities to know when one of them is struggling with something versus another.

Um,

And so with that being said, I had told Elliot that like a lot of times because he is the most stable because he's the oldest.

And I say the most stable.

I use that lightly.

Lincoln is very stable.

The littles are a little bit harder because they're still trying to find their footing.

But, you know, Elliot...

sort of had the responsibility of maintaining most of his own schedule.