Kallia McFarland

So it's about having that conversation.

But my advice would be gather some evidence.

If you can't gather the evidence yourself, yes, reach out to an investigator because they will help you gather that evidence.

But if you're suspecting something, what's giving you that feeling to go, oh, I think they're cheating?

Is it your insecurities or is it something they've done?

Oh, I think some can, yeah.

I think some can.

Again, I don't know the statistics or anything on it.

I think it probably depends on what's going on.

Like if it's been, I'll call it the sexting, the texting, if it's been that side...

As a female, you would always hold that to go, are they still going to do it?

And then it becomes your insecurity to go, oh, my gosh, he's on his phone again.

What's he doing?

So there is a balance there to go, yes, if you can find forgiveness in your heart and work it out, that's a big thing.

But you also have to be really open with yourself.

And I mean, hey, if you need to go and get counseling to talk about it with somebody else, go and do it.

Don't get me wrong.

I think there are some investigators that have caught that or they'll catch them walking out of a hotel room together.

All it is is a photo to go, hey, here's the evidence.

Arms around each other.