Kara

And obviously, you know, he ended up getting a divorce.

So, you know, I went in with both eyes open that, you know, no matter how happy things are, things can end.

Whose idea was it?

It was mine.

After my husband's divorce, you know, there's like a lot of financial stressors and it was a big legal headache for him that I knew had left him maybe a little gun shy.

And so I wanted to let him know that I'm totally willing and able to sign a prenup.

Is there any imbalance here?

I wouldn't say that there's a huge imbalance.

And when we were growing up, neither of us came from a financially well-to-do background.

And we both went to school.

We developed our careers.

And I would say we're doing pretty good now.

careers have given us stock options nothing crazy again a modest amount of money we both have 401ks that we've been saving into I've been saving into my 401k since I was working part-time jobs at grocery stores so we both have some assets Gregory is definitely the higher income earner in our relationship but I would say I'm not too far off

When I was talking about this with one of my really good friends, I guess I had kind of forgotten to mention to her that I'd gotten a prenup.

I mean, it's not something that really comes up in conversation.

So when I was telling

And I was talking about it recently.

She was really shocked.

She's like, you got a prenup?

And this friend is unmarried.