Kate Langbroek
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
And you know that you saying him trying to intervene that day, that's so significant, reminds me of, it was your psych who said this,
where he was talking about how often perpetrators of violence or sexual abuse will choose a partner that is above all else compliant, he said.
Yes.
And then he said because then the message to the child...
It's that I don't matter.
Yes, is that you're not worth saving.
You don't matter.
Constructed.
So because you were, as a preemptive strike, painted as a liar, he was already at that point, must have seen that there was something in you coming down the tunnel at him.
Right, right.
Did you just insult me?
Yes.
Did you like it?
Did your father, was he smart?
Yes, yes.
How would he have explained that or did he not have to explain?
Right.
He just moved it.
Of course.
And that's smart.