Kate Legge

But I never thought that this would come home to visit me.

At that stage, I thought those were relationships with problems that were nothing to do with me.

I was launching a marriage here and that, you know, we had all the hope and optimism in the world.

Tell me how Greg's mother had found out that her husband, Colin, Greg's father, was having an affair with this younger woman.

Well, she was a little bit like me, Molly, and I think she was too busy doing things to sort of pay much attention.

She was also very tolerant.

So he would often say he had to stay in town for business dinners and she thought these would be lubricated barred drink and so that was probably a good decision.

And then one day she rang his office and she said, hello, and they said, can I speak to Colin?

They said, who should I say is speaking?

And she said, it's his wife.

And they said...

oh, Luda, how nice to hear from you.

And of course, Luda was the name of the other woman and she had no idea, Molly.

Oh no, that must have been, that's a devastating way.

Devastating way to find out.

But again, when Colin came home, he completely doused her suspicions and insisted that the person who answered the phone hadn't a clue and they were an idiot and she shouldn't pay any attention to them and she didn't.

And so she was blindsided when he came to her one day after she'd returned from a study trip to China.

She was one of the first groups of

of Westerners into China at that time.

And she came home and he had already moved out, but he didn't.