Kate Morris

I always think about this as like when people say, oh, I've just got to ask my partner if I can, you know, invest in a coach or start going to the gym or hire support in my business.

And then their partner says no.

It's like, I understand why your partner is saying no, if you were the person who has spoken about doing something for years and you've never followed through on it.

It's like, do you think your partner is going to go, yeah, of course you can invest in a coach, even though every single time maybe you've done it before, you haven't followed through, you've complained, you've spoken about doing something, but you haven't actually ever taken action.

It's like you need, and we speak about on this podcast all the time, you need to be able to have radical self-honesty.

You know, if right now you're, we're in May, you haven't achieved the goals that you want to achieve, you need to be able to look at all of the things that you are currently doing right now that is stopping you from achieving those goals.

And I'm not saying this task is going to be easy.

Like I said, it's going to require you to get really honest with yourself and look yourself in a mirror.

But eventually you will get to the point where you will want to change that bad that you will get sick of your own shit.

You will go, I've spent so much time, so much wasted time complaining, not taking action, telling everyone about my goals, my dreams, my desires without doing anything to actually help me move closer towards them.

And you will eventually go, you know, I'm sick of my own shit.

Now's the time to make a change.

And when that day comes, you will look back and probably listen to this episode and go, wow, those girls were so right.

Like it just took me to get to that moment where I was like,

you know what, I just need to go after and achieve my goals.

So one of the main things that I want to make in this episode, if you are somebody listening right now, middle of the year, you haven't really achieved anything at the start of the year.

I think it's really important, you know, we were really hectic just then and we're going hard about, you know, radical self-honesty, et cetera.

But I also think it's really important to not guilt or shame yourself in the fact that you haven't achieved your goals or gotten closer toward them just yet.

Because that cycle also does nothing good for us long term in achieving that goal.

So if you right now are feeling like a bit guilty, you're feeling shameful, you're feeling maybe embarrassed that you haven't been able to do what you said you were going to do, don't allow that to be attached to your personality.