Menu
Sign In Search Podcasts Charts People & Topics Add Podcast API Blog Pricing

Kathryn Gordon

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
144 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

You brought up earlier that our children are seeing us model these relationships. So for everyone listening right now, if you do have kids, gosh, take the time to read this book. Take the time to apply these principles to your life and take a moment to think, are you leading a life and relationship that you want to pass and have your kids emulate? Because

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

You brought up earlier that our children are seeing us model these relationships. So for everyone listening right now, if you do have kids, gosh, take the time to read this book. Take the time to apply these principles to your life and take a moment to think, are you leading a life and relationship that you want to pass and have your kids emulate? Because

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

I don't think we think about that all the time when we're in the grind and running through the day and getting stressed out and dropping the ball on things. If you take a moment to really ask yourself that question, is the relationship you're living in right now one that you want your children to emulate? I think that that can be really powerful.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

I don't think we think about that all the time when we're in the grind and running through the day and getting stressed out and dropping the ball on things. If you take a moment to really ask yourself that question, is the relationship you're living in right now one that you want your children to emulate? I think that that can be really powerful.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

I don't think we think about that all the time when we're in the grind and running through the day and getting stressed out and dropping the ball on things. If you take a moment to really ask yourself that question, is the relationship you're living in right now one that you want your children to emulate? I think that that can be really powerful.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

There's a lot in our society and culture these days of just walk away from people. If there's a disagreement, we'll just leave it. There's other people, other partners out there. But to your point and the importance of communication in this book and teaching people how to treat you, it's about sitting down and having the difficult discussions so that you can work through them.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

There's a lot in our society and culture these days of just walk away from people. If there's a disagreement, we'll just leave it. There's other people, other partners out there. But to your point and the importance of communication in this book and teaching people how to treat you, it's about sitting down and having the difficult discussions so that you can work through them.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

There's a lot in our society and culture these days of just walk away from people. If there's a disagreement, we'll just leave it. There's other people, other partners out there. But to your point and the importance of communication in this book and teaching people how to treat you, it's about sitting down and having the difficult discussions so that you can work through them.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

Well, there's some of those breakthrough moments. One that really hit a chord with me was when Things were not great at all with you and John at this point in your marriage. John was on a flight.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

Well, there's some of those breakthrough moments. One that really hit a chord with me was when Things were not great at all with you and John at this point in your marriage. John was on a flight.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

Well, there's some of those breakthrough moments. One that really hit a chord with me was when Things were not great at all with you and John at this point in your marriage. John was on a flight.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

He starts speaking to an older gentleman who shares with him this idea of a relationship prayer, this prayer for you and your wife, and that John just starts saying it at night and you were not responding. It did not look like it was going well. In my mind, I'm thinking, oh my gosh, like John probably should stop saying this. It's not, it's not working.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

He starts speaking to an older gentleman who shares with him this idea of a relationship prayer, this prayer for you and your wife, and that John just starts saying it at night and you were not responding. It did not look like it was going well. In my mind, I'm thinking, oh my gosh, like John probably should stop saying this. It's not, it's not working.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

He starts speaking to an older gentleman who shares with him this idea of a relationship prayer, this prayer for you and your wife, and that John just starts saying it at night and you were not responding. It did not look like it was going well. In my mind, I'm thinking, oh my gosh, like John probably should stop saying this. It's not, it's not working.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

It's not working because you don't know what's going to happen yet. And then when you turn the page to finally say, You do start embracing this message. You do start saying that this is something like you're starting to look forward to. That was such a beautiful moment because we were able to see the transition in real time happening for you. And it was so powerful. There's more to that, actually.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

It's not working because you don't know what's going to happen yet. And then when you turn the page to finally say, You do start embracing this message. You do start saying that this is something like you're starting to look forward to. That was such a beautiful moment because we were able to see the transition in real time happening for you. And it was so powerful. There's more to that, actually.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

It's not working because you don't know what's going to happen yet. And then when you turn the page to finally say, You do start embracing this message. You do start saying that this is something like you're starting to look forward to. That was such a beautiful moment because we were able to see the transition in real time happening for you. And it was so powerful. There's more to that, actually.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

Yeah.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

Yeah.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Formula For STRONG Relationships, With Kathryn Gordon Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author

Yeah.