Kathy Kay

And they were at the point where they're afraid they were going to cheat.

Some of them were cheating already.

And this was like weighing on them.

That's what they would those were what all my private calls were about.

You know, it's like a big problem that happens, you know, and because people don't want to get divorced, they stay together, but you could fix things in the

Is it necessarily that they, most of the time it's like you have to fix what's outside of the bedroom first before you get inside and fix that?

You know what I'm saying?

Yeah.

For sure.

Yeah.

Right.

Of course.

Right.

To make it as big as possible.

No, and it doesn't have to be like the whole, it doesn't have to be, it's not just about that.

And my favorite question, and I talked about this with somebody, another expert the other day, is like to ask like my girls when I do a Girl Talk episode, my other podcast friends, like, how long do you really like to be pounded?

You know what I mean?

Like, really, like at the end of the day, when it comes to that part of things, like, I don't know many women that want to be pounded for 30 minutes yet.

Guys, I feel like think that they need to, you know, be hard and pounding for a lot longer than we really want to be.

And a lot of times if you've had enough foreplay and everything before, then you're like really close.