Kathy Kay

Why wouldn't you like it?

You know what I mean?

But it's not like...

like and you know some guys I would try it and most of them be like get the fuck away you know but it's not like even though I'm open to it that I have ever put that on the table with every guy either because I just kind of assume that every guy isn't into it so you know you might have been sitting across from girls who would be totally down and totally fine with it but you just didn't know because they wouldn't bring it up because they they think oh this guy's straight he wouldn't be into that and you're thinking they you know won't be into it so no one's saying anything so

You might have to feel someone out.

And you don't have to feel them out by saying, hey, by the way, I just started thinking about dicks up my ass and I'd love to be with a guy and I'm wondering if you could peg me.

You don't start out there, but you could be like, hey, I'm into anal stuff and I had this.

I think the perfect way to bring it up to any girl that's super okay and is the least shocking would be to talk about your previous experience.

You had one girl at one time that

did was really into this and you know asked you to try it and you did and you really liked it you know I don't think that there's anything wrong with that yeah blame it on her

Yeah.

Yeah.

Use her as like the, you know, make her take all the blame.

Like, oh, when I was younger, like I had this one girl and she did this thing and I was like, what the fuck?

And it felt like really good.

Like, I'm really into anal stuff.

Are you into it?

Like, I would totally be into it if you are, you know, kind of like opening up the conversation like that.

Yeah, yeah.

Because listen, you don't know that the girls that you've been with wouldn't be okay with it.