Kathy Kay

A lot of girls nowadays, especially even in your age range, because you're probably going to be dating someone a couple years younger, even early 30s girls.

There's so much more open-minded nowadays to stuff like this.

It's not like you're 57 and you're dating in that range.

It might be a little bit different because those people are all fucking born at a different time.

You know what I mean?

But

You grew up in a much more open time and people around your age are much more open minded that I think it's okay to bring up stuff like that with a girl and you know and and it's it's not going to be a deal breaker if like if she really likes you I think a lot of times guys think like a girl is like you know going to hear one thing and run.

Like if a girl, especially if it's a girl that likes you and you like them, like as a girl, like if I meet a guy finally and all the stars align and this is someone that I actually like, one thing is not going to make me fucking leave him.

You know what I mean?

Like that's not going to happen.

It's different with just a hookup person.

If you're just hooking up with someone and you never met them and you throw that out there the first time, that might be like bye-bye if they're not into it.

But...

once you get into a relationship with a girl and she really likes you and you like her, you could bring that up gently and bring up that other girl and talk about that experience and how you liked it and see if she's into playing.

And if she's not, she'll let you know.

You know what I mean?

But tread.

At least you're treading.

Yeah, or you could just go straight ahead and go on Grindr or Sniffies or go to a bookstore and you could just go straight to the action.

I mean, that's your choice.