Kati Morton

you legitimately can't.

You know, if there's no water or beverage to be poured, you can't pour.

And so I think if we're not pouring into ourselves first and only pouring out, that's, you know, that's when it's an unhealthy behavior versus just me being a good human to people in my life.

100%.

I think a lot of times, you know, it depends on, again, how we're raised and how we think about our relationships.

But for almost everybody out there, there have been times when we've been in a relationship where someone is a taker, and we're a giver, and we overgive, you know, we do light ourselves on fire to keep them warm.

And

Yeah, I love the visual too.

And I love that because then what ends up happening and it's kind of like good play on words is then we're burnt out.

You know, if we keep doing that, we don't have anything left to give and we don't feel good.

And the relationship itself, it truly cannot stand, you know, when there's one giver and one taker and there needs to be the ebb and flow.

So yeah, it's a very common problem.

We've all been in situations like that.

I feel like at least once in our life and it doesn't feel good.