Kati Morton

couple of months ago about how not making decisions is a decision it's like you're living by default just whatever the next thing is if this is okay you want me to okay sure and we life just happens to us versus what i think we all desire or at least i desire is a more empowered

place operating in my life from a more empowered place where I'm able to make choices that best align with what I want versus feeling like, well, that's the next best thing.

That's what people expect of you.

That is the next logical step in this path that you're on.

And yeah, I think that deciding to be an active participant in our life versus being a little bit more autopiloty is how we curate the life we love versus waking up at 60 and thinking, where'd the time go?

What is this?

What am I doing?

Yes, 100%.

Because some, I feel like 90% of the time it feels easier just to stay where you are, right?

You're already at Everest.

Why do I need to go to Kilimanjaro?

I really would like to, and I think it's where I'm meant to be, but that's a lot of work.

That's a lot of effort.

And I'm not saying that all of us are like effort adverse.

Both you and I are saying we overwork ourselves and we do a lot of things, but...

I think sometimes we're so pulled out, we're looking down on this big change.

Okay, if I have to get all the way over there, that could take years.

Oh, and we preemptively snuff it out versus thinking, which is something that I've been practicing myself is that

instead of looking out like this is this big goal that i have i have to get all the way over there how in the world am i going to do that and oh my god it's so scary and this could take so long instead of psyching myself up and out of it i think okay well what would be the one step i could take to move me in that direction what would be something that i could do that's honestly some of it's very low lift maybe it means i send an email maybe it means

that I start practicing or I take a little online course about this thing that I want to learn and see if I'm interested.