Katie

Hi, Nick.

So cool to be here and to see you.

I've been following you for years.

Thank you for all the advice you've given.

You have gotten me out of some toxic shit.

My name is Katie and I am turning 40 next week.

So I have been in a relationship for two years, living together a year and a half, wondering if it's time to stop playing house.

Yes, sir.

Well, ideally, this is going to lead to building a family.

But if it's not the right one, then that's not going to happen.

So it would be an inauthentic experience.

We are kind of on the launching pad to that beautiful goal of having kids and starting a family together.

But I say playing because if it's not the right person that I'm doing it with, then I'm playing house right now and shouldn't be.

Essentially, yes.

I'm really battling a lot with how I'm defining love.

This is the first relationship I've had that's even lasted this long.

And what I value so much about it is this feeling of safety.

And I know you've talked about this before.

I know you can relate to it.

This is the first relationship where I really have felt that from the jump and just this very ease of trust.