Katie

I'm very comfortable.

I'm very content.

I don't want to see him go.

I don't have that like excitement.

Right.

I don't know how to, what do, what?

I just wonder what level of questioning is healthy or not.

a committed relationship is there always this little bit of questioning like would it be better in a different relationship or are you just always certain no this is my person and i would never want to try with someone else you first have to figure out whether this is again when i kind of joked and suspected that this is a you problem but that is a big question is this a you problem or is this a him problem if he is doing or not doing things

That makes sense.

I think it's both.

I guess just love language stuff.

No, he's always receptive.

There's just not a lot of follow through.

Yeah, just, hey, remember when I told you that my birthday is really important to me and I would really like, I know you're not a gift guy, but it would really mean a lot to me if you put some thought, plan something.

And he'll agree, he'll understand, but then there's no follow through.

The response that I usually get, it's just kind of lazy, to be honest with you.

He smokes a lot of weed.

He's a bit of a stoner.

So he's got that overall like just cadence that's very monotone.

It's just very like, oh, I'm sorry.