Kaylee

Cause he values, I know that he values me.

Yeah.

I never thought of it that way.

So that's a good reframe.

The petty side of me comes out and I'm like, fuck off.

Literally ask anybody else.

But in that moment... Like you're a big girl, get your own charger.

But he's not an asshole.

He's like, I'm not going to like... He's like, I'll just respond like, yeah, I'll bring one, you know, like...

And I hate to use like, oh, he's a nice guy, but professionally you just want to be nice to people.

So he's like, I'm not going to like blatantly.

It's like the smallest thing, and I'll kind of doubt myself because it's really important for me and for us to have a healthy marriage.

So we're not going to try to, I don't know, create some toxicity in this space.

So I'll have self-doubt.

And then I came from a very emotional, abusive, just cheating relationship before him for a long time.

So that self-doubt will come to my brain.

And I'm like, wait, is this like...

past trauma that is coming up or is this the new me but that still has a boundary and it's hard to trust myself to decipher like what's what is it both

So I'm not as bad as I think I am, maybe.

And I'll try to tell him, I'm like, but you guys don't work at like Starbucks together, you know?