Keith Mitchell

Maybe it's verbiage.

Maybe it's a touch.

Learn to touch.

A lot of men don't know how to touch.

It's learning the language of touch.

And sometimes it's rough, sometimes it's soft.

It's a combination of it.

Yeah.

Because a lot of times in the dynamic, most women don't recognize the power that they do have.

So in the BDSM, it's a practice to discover what this power looks like and how it manifests.

So in the BDSM concept, it's like the man who's always, it was typically physically the dominant one.

Now you have to be submissive.

And now the woman who's typically the submissive, now she's the dominant.

So now you feel what that looks like.

You feel the vulnerability of what that looks like.

She could, with words cut you out with her physical being, she could put you in a compromised situation.

And so now you begin to understand the knowledge of like, okay, well, this is a serious thing.

This thing needs to be handled with kind of presence or a real understanding, or it can be traumatic.

And so it just learns us the opportunity of how this engagement, what it looks like and how we can do it more constructively.

But you could tell she was holding it though.