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Kelly McDaniel

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273 total appearances

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The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Und ich habe mit Frauen gesprochen, die ihre Mütter verloren haben, und an Müttersdagen, wenn sie in der Schule sind, und es sind Dinge, die sie machen sollen, Kunstwerke oder Projekte, um sie zur Mutter zu bringen, wie tragisch das ist. Ich habe bemerkt, und ich weiß nicht, ob ihr das bemerkt habt, aber in den letzten drei Jahren,

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

I've noticed that some social media and marketing campaigns have started to develop some sensitivity to this. They may even put a trigger warning out. If you don't want to hear about us or about Mother's Day, block us during May. I've been encouraged by this, that there's a recognition that this is not going to feel good for everybody. And it can be difficult as a daughter.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

I've noticed that some social media and marketing campaigns have started to develop some sensitivity to this. They may even put a trigger warning out. If you don't want to hear about us or about Mother's Day, block us during May. I've been encouraged by this, that there's a recognition that this is not going to feel good for everybody. And it can be difficult as a daughter.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

I've noticed that some social media and marketing campaigns have started to develop some sensitivity to this. They may even put a trigger warning out. If you don't want to hear about us or about Mother's Day, block us during May. I've been encouraged by this, that there's a recognition that this is not going to feel good for everybody. And it can be difficult as a daughter.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

It can be difficult as a woman who wanted children and didn't get to have them. It can be difficult for mothers who lost children. It is difficult in so many ways. And speaks right to the fact that our culture sentimentalizes it, minimizes what an essential, important relationship this is.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

It can be difficult as a woman who wanted children and didn't get to have them. It can be difficult for mothers who lost children. It is difficult in so many ways. And speaks right to the fact that our culture sentimentalizes it, minimizes what an essential, important relationship this is.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

It can be difficult as a woman who wanted children and didn't get to have them. It can be difficult for mothers who lost children. It is difficult in so many ways. And speaks right to the fact that our culture sentimentalizes it, minimizes what an essential, important relationship this is.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Genau. Whether it was an aunt, a friend, a babysitter, a teacher, whoever gave you a sense, even if it was only for 30 seconds, that you are delightful. That's something to think about on Mother's Day.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Genau. Whether it was an aunt, a friend, a babysitter, a teacher, whoever gave you a sense, even if it was only for 30 seconds, that you are delightful. That's something to think about on Mother's Day.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Genau. Whether it was an aunt, a friend, a babysitter, a teacher, whoever gave you a sense, even if it was only for 30 seconds, that you are delightful. That's something to think about on Mother's Day.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

I think we need to forgive our mothers in order to be happy within ourselves. Forgiveness is something we really do to loosen up any resentment we feel, to let ourselves off the hook of being angry or hurt or jealous. We can forgive our mother whether she's alive or not. We can forgive our mother whether she apologizes or not.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

I think we need to forgive our mothers in order to be happy within ourselves. Forgiveness is something we really do to loosen up any resentment we feel, to let ourselves off the hook of being angry or hurt or jealous. We can forgive our mother whether she's alive or not. We can forgive our mother whether she apologizes or not.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

I think we need to forgive our mothers in order to be happy within ourselves. Forgiveness is something we really do to loosen up any resentment we feel, to let ourselves off the hook of being angry or hurt or jealous. We can forgive our mother whether she's alive or not. We can forgive our mother whether she apologizes or not.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

One of the terms I came up with in Mother Hunger is called an apology ache. Most adult daughters that I talk to are aching for their mother to see them, acknowledge where she was hurtful, not available, and say I'm sorry. and change the behavior. Not just say, I'm sorry, oh poor me, but literally change the behavior. What I find is that in forgiving our mothers, that apology ache gets smaller.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

One of the terms I came up with in Mother Hunger is called an apology ache. Most adult daughters that I talk to are aching for their mother to see them, acknowledge where she was hurtful, not available, and say I'm sorry. and change the behavior. Not just say, I'm sorry, oh poor me, but literally change the behavior. What I find is that in forgiving our mothers, that apology ache gets smaller.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

One of the terms I came up with in Mother Hunger is called an apology ache. Most adult daughters that I talk to are aching for their mother to see them, acknowledge where she was hurtful, not available, and say I'm sorry. and change the behavior. Not just say, I'm sorry, oh poor me, but literally change the behavior. What I find is that in forgiving our mothers, that apology ache gets smaller.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

And then we don't project it onto our lovers and friends. But until we forgive our mothers, we might be looking to our lovers and friends to compensate for where she was actually the one that was hurtful.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

And then we don't project it onto our lovers and friends. But until we forgive our mothers, we might be looking to our lovers and friends to compensate for where she was actually the one that was hurtful.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

And then we don't project it onto our lovers and friends. But until we forgive our mothers, we might be looking to our lovers and friends to compensate for where she was actually the one that was hurtful.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Well, being an emotional eater is also part of being human. Eating is like love. It's nurturing. So it depends on the spectrum of deprivation. Am I working with a woman who's feeling deprived, that you starve yourself? I'm going to encourage that eating well is a form of self-care and fuel and keeps us healthy in life. But that's going to take a long time.