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Kelly McDaniel

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273 total appearances

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The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Well, being an emotional eater is also part of being human. Eating is like love. It's nurturing. So it depends on the spectrum of deprivation. Am I working with a woman who's feeling deprived, that you starve yourself? I'm going to encourage that eating well is a form of self-care and fuel and keeps us healthy in life. But that's going to take a long time.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Well, being an emotional eater is also part of being human. Eating is like love. It's nurturing. So it depends on the spectrum of deprivation. Am I working with a woman who's feeling deprived, that you starve yourself? I'm going to encourage that eating well is a form of self-care and fuel and keeps us healthy in life. But that's going to take a long time.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

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The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Ja.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Ja.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Even if you don't have a daughter.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Even if you don't have a daughter.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Even if you don't have a daughter.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Part of grief is anger, part of grief is blame, and those are stages to go through not to feel guilty about. Anger when it gets mixed with shame, and shame is part of mother hunger, because mother hunger is essentially a word for loneliness. Like I'm alone in the world. I don't have a place to land, to feel safe and feel good.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Part of grief is anger, part of grief is blame, and those are stages to go through not to feel guilty about. Anger when it gets mixed with shame, and shame is part of mother hunger, because mother hunger is essentially a word for loneliness. Like I'm alone in the world. I don't have a place to land, to feel safe and feel good.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Part of grief is anger, part of grief is blame, and those are stages to go through not to feel guilty about. Anger when it gets mixed with shame, and shame is part of mother hunger, because mother hunger is essentially a word for loneliness. Like I'm alone in the world. I don't have a place to land, to feel safe and feel good.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

It's an honor. I love that I get to. Oh, that's so nice to hear. I love what I get to do. But yes, because we're human, we're going to need to fill those needs that were lost. So if I missed out on nurturing, I'm probably going to really need to get regular massage. I'm going to need to eat really well, take walks, take naps, rest. How many of us saw our mothers rest? Never. Never. Never. Never.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

It's an honor. I love that I get to. Oh, that's so nice to hear. I love what I get to do. But yes, because we're human, we're going to need to fill those needs that were lost. So if I missed out on nurturing, I'm probably going to really need to get regular massage. I'm going to need to eat really well, take walks, take naps, rest. How many of us saw our mothers rest? Never. Never. Never. Never.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

It's an honor. I love that I get to. Oh, that's so nice to hear. I love what I get to do. But yes, because we're human, we're going to need to fill those needs that were lost. So if I missed out on nurturing, I'm probably going to really need to get regular massage. I'm going to need to eat really well, take walks, take naps, rest. How many of us saw our mothers rest? Never. Never. Never. Never.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

It was seen as lazy, but it's actually really a form of nurturing. And if we didn't see our mother nurture herself, chances are we didn't see her nurture us either. Let's say that we grew up not feeling very safe. We're going to really want to curate an environment of safety and may not know how to do that. That's where guidance really helps.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

It was seen as lazy, but it's actually really a form of nurturing. And if we didn't see our mother nurture herself, chances are we didn't see her nurture us either. Let's say that we grew up not feeling very safe. We're going to really want to curate an environment of safety and may not know how to do that. That's where guidance really helps.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

It was seen as lazy, but it's actually really a form of nurturing. And if we didn't see our mother nurture herself, chances are we didn't see her nurture us either. Let's say that we grew up not feeling very safe. We're going to really want to curate an environment of safety and may not know how to do that. That's where guidance really helps.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Depending on the degree of mother hunger, that guidance could come from friends, family, even religious institutions. But more extreme forms of mother hunger, namely third degree mother hunger. Das ist eine Kategorie, die ich mitgebracht habe, die erklärt, was passiert mit dem Verbindungssystem, wenn eine Tochter eine Mutter hat, die verletzt war, die tatsächlich furchtbar war.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Depending on the degree of mother hunger, that guidance could come from friends, family, even religious institutions. But more extreme forms of mother hunger, namely third degree mother hunger. Das ist eine Kategorie, die ich mitgebracht habe, die erklärt, was passiert mit dem Verbindungssystem, wenn eine Tochter eine Mutter hat, die verletzt war, die tatsächlich furchtbar war.

The Tamsen Show
Healing the Grief, the Love, and the Silence Around Your Mother

Depending on the degree of mother hunger, that guidance could come from friends, family, even religious institutions. But more extreme forms of mother hunger, namely third degree mother hunger. Das ist eine Kategorie, die ich mitgebracht habe, die erklärt, was passiert mit dem Verbindungssystem, wenn eine Tochter eine Mutter hat, die verletzt war, die tatsächlich furchtbar war.