Kelly McDaniel
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Also ist das Objekt des Verbindungssystems, das wir sehr brauchen und wollen, auch furchtbar. So we learn to bond in fear. Is that what we do in relationships online? And then that's what we do in relationships. We will attract partners that other people might look at and say, oh, that's a bad idea. That person's kind of scary. But we don't see it.
Also ist das Objekt des Verbindungssystems, das wir sehr brauchen und wollen, auch furchtbar. So we learn to bond in fear. Is that what we do in relationships online? And then that's what we do in relationships. We will attract partners that other people might look at and say, oh, that's a bad idea. That person's kind of scary. But we don't see it.
Also ist das Objekt des Verbindungssystems, das wir sehr brauchen und wollen, auch furchtbar. So we learn to bond in fear. Is that what we do in relationships online? And then that's what we do in relationships. We will attract partners that other people might look at and say, oh, that's a bad idea. That person's kind of scary. But we don't see it.
Because we grew up bonding to somebody who was untrustworthy. Our love attachment system thrives on that, knows how to deal with it. That feels like love. And it can take a long time and many broken relationships before a woman may pause and say, I'm the common denominator here. Something in me is hurting and needs attention. And that's when professional help really helps.
Because we grew up bonding to somebody who was untrustworthy. Our love attachment system thrives on that, knows how to deal with it. That feels like love. And it can take a long time and many broken relationships before a woman may pause and say, I'm the common denominator here. Something in me is hurting and needs attention. And that's when professional help really helps.
Because we grew up bonding to somebody who was untrustworthy. Our love attachment system thrives on that, knows how to deal with it. That feels like love. And it can take a long time and many broken relationships before a woman may pause and say, I'm the common denominator here. Something in me is hurting and needs attention. And that's when professional help really helps.
To identify what was lost, identify that when you attach to someone who was dangerous, Es hat wirklich dein Beziehungssystem verletzt und du wirst einen Break von Beziehungen brauchen.
To identify what was lost, identify that when you attach to someone who was dangerous, Es hat wirklich dein Beziehungssystem verletzt und du wirst einen Break von Beziehungen brauchen.
To identify what was lost, identify that when you attach to someone who was dangerous, Es hat wirklich dein Beziehungssystem verletzt und du wirst einen Break von Beziehungen brauchen.
Um das Verlangen zu füllen, genau, genau, weil wir nicht stehen können.
Um das Verlangen zu füllen, genau, genau, weil wir nicht stehen können.
Um das Verlangen zu füllen, genau, genau, weil wir nicht stehen können.
Well, I've called it different things. When I see a pattern, a woman who's struggling to break the cycle of one relationship after another, and they're starting to get progressively more dangerous, let's say, or more risky, or her value system is getting compromised more and more, that's when it starts to look like an addiction. Yeah. Where we do something, and if you think about falling in love,
Well, I've called it different things. When I see a pattern, a woman who's struggling to break the cycle of one relationship after another, and they're starting to get progressively more dangerous, let's say, or more risky, or her value system is getting compromised more and more, that's when it starts to look like an addiction. Yeah. Where we do something, and if you think about falling in love,
Well, I've called it different things. When I see a pattern, a woman who's struggling to break the cycle of one relationship after another, and they're starting to get progressively more dangerous, let's say, or more risky, or her value system is getting compromised more and more, that's when it starts to look like an addiction. Yeah. Where we do something, and if you think about falling in love,
That dopamine high, the temporary insanity, right? It's pretty euphoric. Sure. We feel really high. You want it to last forever. We want it to last forever. And there's a real reason this is biologically so strong. But we can get really attached to those dopamine hormones when we have mother hunger. Because we're hungry. We're starving. And that feels like what we need.
That dopamine high, the temporary insanity, right? It's pretty euphoric. Sure. We feel really high. You want it to last forever. We want it to last forever. And there's a real reason this is biologically so strong. But we can get really attached to those dopamine hormones when we have mother hunger. Because we're hungry. We're starving. And that feels like what we need.
That dopamine high, the temporary insanity, right? It's pretty euphoric. Sure. We feel really high. You want it to last forever. We want it to last forever. And there's a real reason this is biologically so strong. But we can get really attached to those dopamine hormones when we have mother hunger. Because we're hungry. We're starving. And that feels like what we need.
So it's easy to get trapped in a cycle of falling in love without staying in love.
So it's easy to get trapped in a cycle of falling in love without staying in love.