Ken Coleman

Like I don't want it to feel like we've shifted gears.

And I want it to feel real natural because this is a values conversation.

Now, that's what I mean by I'm trying to give the male version with my philosophy swirled in.

That's what I think.

I hope that sounds specific because it is to me.

But I don't know how long that is into the relationship.

But I wouldn't bring up any kind of money thing until we know that we're interested in a long haul relationship.

Take me to first date.

First date is... What are you going to show that's not...

So it's like, oh... And what is, by the way, what's the concession item you're getting?

So you're going to do the, whether it's the right hand or left hand, you've got the bucket kind of cradled and you got the cash in your fingers that he can see.

And then I take it back.

I don't mind that.

That is subtle.

It's a subtle hint.

I don't know if most dudes pick up on those kind of, because we're idiots.

Guys can't find the mustard.

I've been married 28 years.

I can't find the mustard in my own refrigerator ever.

So I don't know if that works, but I like it.