Ken Coleman

I thought there was... And so that's where the relationship stuff comes in.

So now, to me, and again, I'm speaking from a guy who's been married almost 28 years.

Uh-huh.

If, Jade, if Stacey and I are very separate on $10,000, I'm going to choose $10,000 less to be in a better situation.

And I don't, I, yes, but that you're discounting emotion.

Yeah.

Again, I'm not telling you not to do it.

I'm just giving you my take.

And I think that what I'm trying to get out of that, and I love that you push back on this, because what I'm saying is then you got to cast vision better.

Yeah, that's true.

You're not casting enough to where she feels safe.

For some reason in her mind, she feels safe emotionally with 10 grand less.

True or false?

True.

So we got to cover that.

You got to fix that.

I get it.

But when the wife is going, I don't think you need that one.

This one's better.

Only you can say that because any dude that's got half a brain doesn't look at his wife and say, come on, woman, don't kill my vibe.