Ken Coleman

that I want to pursue this lady.

Like this is a, this feels like I'm going to invest for the long haul because I think this is going to cash out.

So once I've determined that I think there's long-term potential, I'm talking marriage.

Then I think a couple of dates later, so there's no rhyme or reason other than I'm a feel guy.

I'm all feel.

So I'm going, okay, I'm not going to do it right away, but maybe a couple of dates later, maybe we're doing a longer date.

Maybe it's a, we spend the day somewhere and it comes out in just natural conversation, not a, you know, we've just finished the spaghetti and the tiramisu is on the way.

And I go, all right, I'd like to talk about money.

Like I don't want it to feel like we've shifted gears.

And I want it to feel real natural because this is a values conversation.

Now, that's what I mean by I'm trying to give the male version with my philosophy swirled in.

That's what I think.

I hope that sounds specific because it is to me.

But I don't know how long that is into the relationship.

But I wouldn't bring up any kind of money thing until we know that we're interested in a long haul relationship.

Take me to first date.

First date is... What are you going to show that's not...

So it's like, oh... And what is, by the way, what's the concession item you're getting?

So you're going to do the, whether it's the right hand or left hand, you've got the bucket kind of cradled and you got the cash in your fingers that he can see.

And then I take it back.