Ken Coleman

Have you?

Yeah, that's a real thing.

So the hard part with this is I do think that...

Most of us in here have had some sort of an iPad moment or some sort of a catalyst moment.

And sometimes with couples, it doesn't happen at the same time, right?

It'd be wonderful if it did, and then you're on board.

That's what happened with Sam and I, it happened at the same time.

But if it doesn't, it's that ongoing conversation and that continuous feeling of it, right?

And the way that you can help push on that is to tell her how you're feeling.

Oh, I'm just feeling trapped.

I don't wanna feel like this forever.

I feel like I just go to work and go to work and we still feel broke.

And if you're telling her constantly how you're feeling and that you have a hope for a different future, that's the best you can do, right?

And then at some point, you've got to get to her heart on it and figure out what is it on her end that's keeping her from that.

Because we all have a desire to be free, all of us.

So my guess is not that it doesn't bother her or that she doesn't care about it.

There's probably something deeper under there.

Maybe there's a fear because the truth is she doesn't know.

She doesn't know for sure, like inside of herself, what's on the other side of that sacrifice.

And I think that holds a lot of people back.