Ken Coleman

And I'll bet you that there's also a connection between your dad, what a good man he is, who tried to tell you about this.

And I'll bet you, tell me if I'm right or wrong, that your dad's pretty darn frugal.

True or false?

Yeah, so did he have a time in his life where he was buying lots of toys he couldn't afford?

Okay, so hey, here's another thing.

That runs in you.

So all of this is awareness.

All I'm doing is kind of helping you get aware to where you go, okay, now I've got to change my list, and I think this is a fun exercise for you.

If I were coaching in your house, this is what I'd do.

I'd go get out a legal pad, draw a line down the middle, and I want you to write half two on the left,

and want to on the right.

Now, you have a very different have-to list at 25 than I do at 51.

I got three kids.

You've got a wife.

One's in college.

I got two doodles.

And so when my money comes in every month, I have a long have-to list.

Yes, that's right.

But I get great satisfaction, the same satisfaction that you just mentioned to Jade, I get from

providing and taking care of my responsibilities.