Ken Coleman

I am ultra conservative on wedding costs.

And I say, this is a fabulous young couple.

And I say, it's either a gift or it isn't.

And if the money is a gift, when I give someone a gift,

All right, let me just use Sam as an example.

I know Sam loves shoes, for instance.

If I buy Sam a pair of custom Jordans or something or other, and I give them to him, and Sam's going to be like, oh my gosh, thank you.

And I go, hey, now listen, I don't actually want you to wear these outside the house.

That's wild.

That's too much.

But my point is, yes, it's insane, but it's a true example.

If I give Sam a gift of shoes, I don't get to tell Sam how and where he wears his shoes.

I'm giving him a gift.

And I actually think...

you should honor this request and you need to get over it.

And I would start bragging on them.

I love the fact that their response to you was, our values are this.

I love that they actually have a plan.

And you know what?

As much as you joke about it, if they want to offer pizza bagels, step into it and tell all your friends, we want you to come honor our daughter and whatever, whatever, whatever, and son-in-law.