Kezia Noble
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And it's like, no, you've got to use a bit of this other stuff also in the mix, which doesn't make sense on paper, but does work when you do it correctly.
And it's like, no, you've got to use a bit of this other stuff also in the mix, which doesn't make sense on paper, but does work when you do it correctly.
Well, because women have been on so many dates and what they do is women like to categorize men. And if the man is asking the same kind of tired, unimaginative questions that all the other guys have been asking, then she's not going to be on her toes. She's going to be in, you know, I call it autopilot mode where she's not making the effort because she's She's kind of already been through that.
Well, because women have been on so many dates and what they do is women like to categorize men. And if the man is asking the same kind of tired, unimaginative questions that all the other guys have been asking, then she's not going to be on her toes. She's going to be in, you know, I call it autopilot mode where she's not making the effort because she's She's kind of already been through that.
Well, because women have been on so many dates and what they do is women like to categorize men. And if the man is asking the same kind of tired, unimaginative questions that all the other guys have been asking, then she's not going to be on her toes. She's going to be in, you know, I call it autopilot mode where she's not making the effort because she's She's kind of already been through that.
She's gone through the motions, and she's already kind of got the outcome of how it's going to end. Oh, he's going to ask me this now, and his response is going to be A, B, and C. So it becomes predictable. Women like excitement. They like excitement more than men do. Okay? Men don't want a headache. Men want someone nice, calm, and compliant. Women want excitement much more than men.
She's gone through the motions, and she's already kind of got the outcome of how it's going to end. Oh, he's going to ask me this now, and his response is going to be A, B, and C. So it becomes predictable. Women like excitement. They like excitement more than men do. Okay? Men don't want a headache. Men want someone nice, calm, and compliant. Women want excitement much more than men.
She's gone through the motions, and she's already kind of got the outcome of how it's going to end. Oh, he's going to ask me this now, and his response is going to be A, B, and C. So it becomes predictable. Women like excitement. They like excitement more than men do. Okay? Men don't want a headache. Men want someone nice, calm, and compliant. Women want excitement much more than men.
And it has to be – they have to feel stimulated emotionally – And mentally, that doesn't mean you have to have this very serious, highfalutin conversation about something that's very deep. No, I don't mean that, but it just means about making her, forcing her to have to think, forcing her. If she has to think, it means she has to invest.
And it has to be – they have to feel stimulated emotionally – And mentally, that doesn't mean you have to have this very serious, highfalutin conversation about something that's very deep. No, I don't mean that, but it just means about making her, forcing her to have to think, forcing her. If she has to think, it means she has to invest.
And it has to be – they have to feel stimulated emotionally – And mentally, that doesn't mean you have to have this very serious, highfalutin conversation about something that's very deep. No, I don't mean that, but it just means about making her, forcing her to have to think, forcing her. If she has to think, it means she has to invest.
And if she's investing, it means that she's trying to impress you on some level. So it's very much pattern breaking is not just about asking an interesting question. It's about your interesting responses. So we could take a very, you know, two things that are always going to come up in conversation is where are you from and what do you do?
And if she's investing, it means that she's trying to impress you on some level. So it's very much pattern breaking is not just about asking an interesting question. It's about your interesting responses. So we could take a very, you know, two things that are always going to come up in conversation is where are you from and what do you do?
And if she's investing, it means that she's trying to impress you on some level. So it's very much pattern breaking is not just about asking an interesting question. It's about your interesting responses. So we could take a very, you know, two things that are always going to come up in conversation is where are you from and what do you do?
So we know that those two questions are going to come up and I'm not telling anyone that they shouldn't be asking those questions. But it's very easy for those questions to end up in a boring conversation. So let's say like most of my students work in I.T., The first thing will be like, what do you do? He says, I.T.
So we know that those two questions are going to come up and I'm not telling anyone that they shouldn't be asking those questions. But it's very easy for those questions to end up in a boring conversation. So let's say like most of my students work in I.T., The first thing will be like, what do you do? He says, I.T.
So we know that those two questions are going to come up and I'm not telling anyone that they shouldn't be asking those questions. But it's very easy for those questions to end up in a boring conversation. So let's say like most of my students work in I.T., The first thing will be like, what do you do? He says, I.T.
And she will just give a very polite, unimaginative response, which is like, oh, you know, do you like it? And most of the time the guy will go, yeah, it's OK. Or it's all right. You know, and that's it. That's already the conversation. But if he turned around and just said, you know what, I love it and I hate it. Immediately, she's curious because people don't answer like that.
And she will just give a very polite, unimaginative response, which is like, oh, you know, do you like it? And most of the time the guy will go, yeah, it's OK. Or it's all right. You know, and that's it. That's already the conversation. But if he turned around and just said, you know what, I love it and I hate it. Immediately, she's curious because people don't answer like that.
And she will just give a very polite, unimaginative response, which is like, oh, you know, do you like it? And most of the time the guy will go, yeah, it's OK. Or it's all right. You know, and that's it. That's already the conversation. But if he turned around and just said, you know what, I love it and I hate it. Immediately, she's curious because people don't answer like that.