Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life
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I get the Prince Harry thing every now and then. I go, oh, you're like Prince Harry. I'm like, yeah, I'm like a very poor Prince Harry compared to him. All right, welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach and author, Conal Barrett. I'm here to help you confidently flirt with women and attract your dream girlfriend all by being authentic. No toxic pickup tricks needed because women like you for you. And let me ask you a question. Do women confuse you? Do women ghost you? You ever struggle with what to say, what to talk about? Well, today's very special guest is here to help you truly understand what women want and how to give them what they want in the dating game so that you can get a great girlfriend.
Kezia Noble is the leading female dating and attraction expert for men. Her videos have received over 72 million views on YouTube, and she wrote a best-selling book called The Noble Art of Seducing Women. Kezia has helped over 100,000 guys, just like you, overcome their sticking points, their limiting beliefs, to achieve some pretty fantastic success with women, which you're going to hear about. The kind of success that guys never thought was possible. And you can learn a lot more about Kezia on her website at kezia-noble.com. And that's K-E-Z-I-A. Kezia, welcome to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast.
Hello. Hi. Thank you for that lovely introduction.
You're very welcome. It's a long intro because you've done a lot. You've achieved a lot. By the way, dear listener, hang out to the very end of the episode because Kezia is going to share a very powerful tip, a powerful insight about women that you're going to want to hear. So stand by. Okay, Kezia, here's the first question I want to ask you. Before we get into some advice on helping men flirt and date, can you tell me a little bit about your journey to becoming a dating expert? Was there a moment or a time in your life when you had an aha moment and said, oh, I really need to help men? I'm going to become a coach and an expert and a guide. How did that happen?
Well, it didn't happen like that. I was essentially headhunted, which sounds bizarre, but it's true. That's the closest way I can explain it. This was back in 2006. I was minding my own business and I was in a bar and a guy approached me and he said that he worked for or he was part of a company that helped men pick up women because this was 2006, so pick up was a thing, right? Right. And we don't, I don't use that phrase anymore, but it was then. And I was like, what is pickup? What's a pickup artist? And he explained it to me, explained, look, we teach guys like how to pull women, essentially how to attract women. And I was a complete skeptic. I was like, you can't teach it. Either there's chemistry or there's nothing.
So he said, well, I've actually come over to approach you because I'd like you to come along to one of our workshops and Um, and to give feedback to the guys that are on our program on one of our bootcamps, because we're looking for like attractive young women. I was an attractive young woman then. Okay. So we have to give back, we have to give our feedback to the guys. And, um, cause we were talking a little bit and he found me very honest and direct and he said, look, that's really what we're looking for. So I went there and thought, okay, let's just give this a go. And there were two things that I noticed pretty quickly, which was the first was that there were indeed practical tools, advice that you could give men that could really make a change.
I saw that within the space of the time I was there. And the second thing that I noticed is that there were no women there. in this movement or industry or community, whatever you want to call it, the other women that were there were giving very, excuse me, let me turn off my emails, were giving very wishy-washy advice, you know, like just be yourself, smile more, be more confident. Vague. Very vague, because I think a lot of women are people pleasers essentially, whereas I've never been a people pleaser, I've never felt the need to please other people, I think that's probably a masculine trait in me And so I was just very honest, very direct. And I left thinking, okay, they're going to come after me with pitchforks, these guys.
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