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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

Fri, 29 Nov 2024

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How do you talk to women and create true attraction? What’s the right way to approach in the #MeToo Era? How much do your looks matter to women? In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating expert for men Kezia Noble answers these confounding questions. The bestselling author of “The Noble Art of Seduction,” Kezia has helped more than 100,000 men get great dating results. How? By telling it like it is about what works with women. “Guys don’t want to hear bulls*it,” she tells host and fellow dating coach Connell Barrett. “They want to hear the raw truth that gets results.”You want raw truth? You got it! Kezia and Connell discuss:(2:35) How Kezia Learned to Get Great Results for Her Clients(10:40) How to Dial Up Attraction Using her “Double-Sided Compliment”(13:12) “The Shadow,” the Side of Men that Women Find Seductive(16:45) What to Say on Dates to go from Boring to Charismatic(18:05) How to Be Authentically Interesting to Women as the Raw, Real You(24:05) The Right Way to Talk About Your Career… and the Wrong Way(25:45) The Truth about How Much Looks Really Matter to Women(28:51) Why Women Hate the Apps and are “Absolutely Dying” for Men like You to Approach Them(32:35) How to Get a Woman Who Rejected You to Change Her Mind and Chase YouAre you ready to confidently approach women and attract your dream girlfriend? Listen now!Featured GuestKezia Noble, The World’s Leading Female Dating and Attraction ExpertTO LEARN ABOUT KEZIA’S 1-1 COACHING PROGRAMSwww.kezia-noble.com/VISIT KEZIA’S YOUTUBE CHANNELhttp://www.youtube.com/@KezianobledatingexpertGET KEZIA’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “THE NOBLE ART OF SEDUCING WOMEN”http://www.amazon.com/Noble-Art-Seducing-Women-Foolproof/dp/1843587629FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO DISCUSS COACHINGhttp://www.datingtransformation.com/contactFOR FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACHhttp://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30Quotes"There were 2 things that I noticed pretty quickly, the first was that there were indeed practical tools, advice that you could give men that could really make a change." - Kezia Noble"It's very much pattern breaking is not just about asking an interesting question, it's about your interesting responses." - Kezia Noble

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Chapter 1: What is the main focus of this podcast episode?

0.089 - 30.54 Connell Barrett

I get the Prince Harry thing every now and then. I go, oh, you're like Prince Harry. I'm like, yeah, I'm like a very poor Prince Harry compared to him. All right, welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach and author, Conal Barrett. I'm here to help you confidently flirt with women and attract your dream girlfriend all by being authentic.

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31.26 - 54.245 Connell Barrett

No toxic pickup tricks needed because women like you for you. And let me ask you a question. Do women confuse you? Do women ghost you? You ever struggle with what to say, what to talk about? Well, today's very special guest is here to help you truly understand what women want and how to give them what they want in the dating game so that you can get a great girlfriend.

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54.745 - 79.165 Connell Barrett

Kezia Noble is the leading female dating and attraction expert for men. Her videos have received over 72 million views on YouTube, and she wrote a best-selling book called The Noble Art of Seducing Women. Kezia has helped over 100,000 guys, just like you, overcome their sticking points, their limiting beliefs, to achieve some pretty fantastic success with women, which you're going to hear about.

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79.446 - 93.211 Connell Barrett

The kind of success that guys never thought was possible. And you can learn a lot more about Kezia on her website at kezia-noble.com. And that's K-E-Z-I-A. Kezia, welcome to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast.

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94.251 - 96.452 Kezia Noble

Hello. Hi. Thank you for that lovely introduction.

97.315 - 115.949 Connell Barrett

You're very welcome. It's a long intro because you've done a lot. You've achieved a lot. By the way, dear listener, hang out to the very end of the episode because Kezia is going to share a very powerful tip, a powerful insight about women that you're going to want to hear. So stand by. Okay, Kezia, here's the first question I want to ask you.

116.209 - 135.914 Connell Barrett

Before we get into some advice on helping men flirt and date, can you tell me a little bit about your journey to becoming a dating expert? Was there a moment or a time in your life when you had an aha moment and said, oh, I really need to help men? I'm going to become a coach and an expert and a guide. How did that happen?

137.736 - 165.531 Kezia Noble

Well, it didn't happen like that. I was essentially headhunted, which sounds bizarre, but it's true. That's the closest way I can explain it. This was back in 2006. I was minding my own business and I was in a bar and a guy approached me and he said that he worked for or he was part of a company that helped men pick up women because this was 2006, so pick up was a thing, right? Right.

166.331 - 186.498 Kezia Noble

And we don't, I don't use that phrase anymore, but it was then. And I was like, what is pickup? What's a pickup artist? And he explained it to me, explained, look, we teach guys like how to pull women, essentially how to attract women. And I was a complete skeptic. I was like, you can't teach it. Either there's chemistry or there's nothing.

Chapter 2: How did Kezia Noble become a dating expert?

2136.661 - 2159.578 Kezia Noble

Yeah, just go to the website, kezia-noble.com. You'll find out more information about my seven-day mastery program and my online acceleration home training program. And everything is one-on-one. We don't do boot camps or anything. So... It's going to be you, me, or you and the coach, just one-on-one. And yeah, check out all the testimonials we've received over the years.

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2160.058 - 2175.025 Kezia Noble

And you'll find like at least one of them will resonate with you personally, because we've just helped hundreds of men from across the globe, a range of different sticking points and from different cultural backgrounds and age groups. So yeah, that's my website. Check it out.

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2175.465 - 2178.967 Connell Barrett

Do you still offer training in London, which would happen in London?

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2179.673 - 2180.173 Kezia Noble

Yes, I do.

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2180.694 - 2203.451 Connell Barrett

Great. I recommend that because I once took a training course in London, not with you, but I took a training course there. It was such a great experience being in London, British accents. Oh my gosh, I fell in love so many times. So working on this in London is a great option if you are able to travel. Okay. Thank you, Kezia, so much for being here. You were fantastic.

2204.031 - 2204.951 Unidentified Speaker (Brief Interjection)

Thank you.

2205.512 - 2225.521 Connell Barrett

Yeah. By the way, if you like this episode, please leave me a review or share it with a guy who needs a boost of dating help. And if you didn't love this episode, leave me some feedback or tell me why you loved and hated it. Just like Kezia told us to talk about loving and hating. Anyway, thank you for listening. And remember your dream girlfriend. She's out there. She's going to love you.

2225.961 - 2233.044 Connell Barrett

She just has to meet the real authentic you. So go take authentic action. Carpe datum. Seize the date. See you next time.

Chapter 7: How can men effectively approach women in real life?

532.431 - 554.7 Kezia Noble

We have lots of video testimonials of guys going, you know, I dated a model by the end of the seven-day mastery program. But kind of like these little intimate messages that I get on my phone or on my, you know, private, you know, DMs on Instagram mean a lot. Weddings, pictures of their babies even. It's really nice. It's great.

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555.387 - 574.101 Connell Barrett

Yeah, I remember the first baby I helped bring into the world. The only baby I've ever brought into the world in any way, because I'm not a father. And my client, Michael, sent me a picture of his new baby. And I thought, oh, my God, I kind of helped do that. You did. I'm not blocking the cock. I'm guiding the cock.

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574.381 - 582.327 Connell Barrett

Why? Calm down, man. What? You just cock-blocked McLaughlin. Okay, he's our friend. We don't do that. We should be guiding his cock, not blocking it.

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583.328 - 604.407 Connell Barrett

like like i think the quote is from 40 year old virgin don't don't block the cock guide the cock so that makes me feel amazing well let's talk about some good game let's talk about what it takes to get these results that you're so proud to get your clients i was checking out your ebook last night which is a great super fast download 10 rapid one i've got which one

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605.103 - 609.524 Connell Barrett

Oh, it's the one, the first one that popped up on your website called 10 rapid ways to get a woman.

609.744 - 612.364 Kezia Noble

Oh yeah. Okay. Fine. We wrote that a long time ago. Yeah.

612.664 - 629.628 Connell Barrett

Yeah. But it's a quick download. It took 10 minutes to read it. There's a couple of tips in it that I really liked that I had never heard before. And I wanted to run a couple by you and ask you why, why this works. And one of the tips in your, in your ebook was what you call the double-sided compliment.

630.068 - 630.248 Kezia Noble

Yes.

630.908 - 637.031 Connell Barrett

Could you give an example of what the double-sided compliment is and how to use that on a woman you're talking to?

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