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Kezia Noble

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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

But if you said, for instance, yeah, I don't really have a very good job, but I've chosen that because... I don't want to be on the rat race like everybody else. I look at everybody else every day, getting on the train, stuck in a little office. No way, not for me. Now, she might think, again, on paper, yeah, well, that guy going in on the train every day, he's, you know, he's got drive.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

He's going somewhere and you're just slobbing about. Sure, sure, she might think that. However, she will not think that you're ashamed or that you are trying to sort of like, get in her good books, tell her what she wants to hear. So you have that pride. And that can work.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

He's going somewhere and you're just slobbing about. Sure, sure, she might think that. However, she will not think that you're ashamed or that you are trying to sort of like, get in her good books, tell her what she wants to hear. So you have that pride. And that can work.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

He's going somewhere and you're just slobbing about. Sure, sure, she might think that. However, she will not think that you're ashamed or that you are trying to sort of like, get in her good books, tell her what she wants to hear. So you have that pride. And that can work.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

That can work more than the guy who's doing all the right stuff, but he's deeply unhappy and he's insecure and all the rest of the stuff. It's better to have both of those things. But if you aren't, I don't say to guys, oh, pretend you've got a fancy job. just, just tell, like, I sit down with them and go, why are you doing this dead end job? Why? Like, what's the reason for it?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

That can work more than the guy who's doing all the right stuff, but he's deeply unhappy and he's insecure and all the rest of the stuff. It's better to have both of those things. But if you aren't, I don't say to guys, oh, pretend you've got a fancy job. just, just tell, like, I sit down with them and go, why are you doing this dead end job? Why? Like, what's the reason for it?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

That can work more than the guy who's doing all the right stuff, but he's deeply unhappy and he's insecure and all the rest of the stuff. It's better to have both of those things. But if you aren't, I don't say to guys, oh, pretend you've got a fancy job. just, just tell, like, I sit down with them and go, why are you doing this dead end job? Why? Like, what's the reason for it?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

And a lot of the time they come up with a pretty good reason, which is I don't want to be a slave to work. I said, well, that's beautiful. That's interesting. That's wow. Okay. So you're a bit of like one of those kinds of guys. Okay. Sell it. Let's do it. You know, don't be ashamed of it. So, um, that's the way that I try and get them to be authentic and,

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

And a lot of the time they come up with a pretty good reason, which is I don't want to be a slave to work. I said, well, that's beautiful. That's interesting. That's wow. Okay. So you're a bit of like one of those kinds of guys. Okay. Sell it. Let's do it. You know, don't be ashamed of it. So, um, that's the way that I try and get them to be authentic and,

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

And a lot of the time they come up with a pretty good reason, which is I don't want to be a slave to work. I said, well, that's beautiful. That's interesting. That's wow. Okay. So you're a bit of like one of those kinds of guys. Okay. Sell it. Let's do it. You know, don't be ashamed of it. So, um, that's the way that I try and get them to be authentic and,

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

Yeah, and it's very important to always tap into the woman's emotional buying motives rather than her rational buying motives. So again, yes, as you said, speaking with emotional language works better with women. For them, lust and attraction is not rational at all. It's purely emotional. So yeah, I agree. Just tap into the emotional narrative.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

Yeah, and it's very important to always tap into the woman's emotional buying motives rather than her rational buying motives. So again, yes, as you said, speaking with emotional language works better with women. For them, lust and attraction is not rational at all. It's purely emotional. So yeah, I agree. Just tap into the emotional narrative.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

Yeah, and it's very important to always tap into the woman's emotional buying motives rather than her rational buying motives. So again, yes, as you said, speaking with emotional language works better with women. For them, lust and attraction is not rational at all. It's purely emotional. So yeah, I agree. Just tap into the emotional narrative.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

So looks, a good looking guy has to do less at the beginning, way less than a less good looking guy. Just a caveat, though. A lot of good-looking guys doesn't mean that it's going to be every woman's type. Suddenly, I've seen some men, and the women are just, oh, he's so good-looking. I'm like, I don't know what I'm looking at here. Have I missed something?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

So looks, a good looking guy has to do less at the beginning, way less than a less good looking guy. Just a caveat, though. A lot of good-looking guys doesn't mean that it's going to be every woman's type. Suddenly, I've seen some men, and the women are just, oh, he's so good-looking. I'm like, I don't know what I'm looking at here. Have I missed something?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

So looks, a good looking guy has to do less at the beginning, way less than a less good looking guy. Just a caveat, though. A lot of good-looking guys doesn't mean that it's going to be every woman's type. Suddenly, I've seen some men, and the women are just, oh, he's so good-looking. I'm like, I don't know what I'm looking at here. Have I missed something?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

So that does happen, just to put that little caveat in. But let's just take the average, very good-looking guy that appeals to most women. He has to do so much less, and he will get away with so much more. I'm sorry to say that, guys. That's the truth. However, he doesn't have the same length of time to make a mistake like a beautiful woman has.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

So that does happen, just to put that little caveat in. But let's just take the average, very good-looking guy that appeals to most women. He has to do so much less, and he will get away with so much more. I'm sorry to say that, guys. That's the truth. However, he doesn't have the same length of time to make a mistake like a beautiful woman has.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

So that does happen, just to put that little caveat in. But let's just take the average, very good-looking guy that appeals to most women. He has to do so much less, and he will get away with so much more. I'm sorry to say that, guys. That's the truth. However, he doesn't have the same length of time to make a mistake like a beautiful woman has.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

Okay, he has maybe five, ten, let's just say five minutes he has to ride on his looks, ride that wave. A beautiful woman can ride on that wave for months. And just be a total bitch and not have anything interesting to say because men are much more governed by how a woman looks.