Kim Anami

But I don't see it as ever being the final solution.

Right.

Like I said, I talk about something that I call conscious monogamy, which is that most people, 99.999 percent of people aren't actually monogamous.

They think they are because they're not having sex with other people, but they're not actually having sex with each other.

They're not actually emotionally open.

They're not actually sexually surrendering to their partner.

They're just in a shitty relationship where they're blocked off.

They don't communicate.

They don't have life changing sex.

And they're calling that monogamy.

But that's not monogamy.

That's just a crappy relationship.

Right.

So when people try to say, well, monogamy doesn't work like, well, you don't actually have it.

So when I work with people and we cultivate that space of having really deep, emotional, intimate connection off the charts, life-changing, right?

Because that's the definition.

It has to be life-changing sex.

When they have that, those people aren't looking for other people to have sex with ever.

Ever.

It's only when there's already a chasm in the relationship and they're looking for solutions, right?