Kim Anami
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I believe it's overriding the voice of the vagina.
If the, what, what is it?
What is lube?
What does wetness mean in a vagina?
What does it mean?
Yeah, right?
So if a woman's not wet, what does that mean?
Well, she's not ready yet, right?
And so if we're slathering on the lube and making it ready, then we're forcing it to do something that it's not yet ready to do.
And so all that does is create dissociation, create numbness for the woman, and she probably won't orgasm or maybe just have a clitoral orgasm, which is a more superficial orgasm.
So I encourage women to tune in, listen.
Like, do they need more emotional connection to their partner?
Do they need different physical stimulation to their partner?
And when they get that, they'll start to lubricate naturally.
But we've been trained like, oh, lube is a girl's best friend, right?
Like, it's no big deal.
Yeah.
And even so-called sex experts will say that.
Like, oh, no, of course.
It's great to just best thing ever.