Kim

I also feel like going to these events and networking, even if it's by yourself, like...

The more you put yourself out there, even if it's awkward in the moment, I feel like the payoff always feels really good after.

So thinking about that afterward, like whether you're going to be happy you made some new connections for work or that you had a social night instead of sitting by yourself on the couch, like it always feels better after.

And if for some reason it was like the most awkward thing ever, go home and do something after that you really like to do.

Like, I don't know, order in really good food.

Yeah, watch TV.

Yeah.

OK, we're popping a squat to take a little walking break.

When you take walks, though, for exercise, how often are you walking?

Okay, we can walk a little slower.

Right, and you take phone calls, and then you stop in the middle of the phone call.

You're definitely the kind of person who can't multitask when you're on a phone call.

You have to stop and chat.

Versus...

Yeah, I feel like I like to do it on the go and like two birds, one stone kind of thing.

I was invited to speak at an event, but I almost said no because I'm scared of being bad at public speaking or people judging me.

How can I motivate myself to feel confident?

See, for me, it's not about the size of the audience.

It's actually about the stakes of the opportunity.

So for instance, I would feel very comfortable.