Kim

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Yeah, I feel like I like to do it on the go and like two birds, one stone kind of thing.

I was invited to speak at an event, but I almost said no because I'm scared of being bad at public speaking or people judging me.

How can I motivate myself to feel confident?

See, for me, it's not about the size of the audience.

It's actually about the stakes of the opportunity.

So for instance, I would feel very comfortable.

We're going to the country club later today for this charity event.

It feels like that's a chill.

No one is judging me that like they're going to give me a job opportunity or something like that.

Um, of course you're always presenting yourself and that's nerve wracking, but I could talk to 10,000 people in that capacity and not be nervous.

I have done small group presentations, but for instance, it's in front of brands who may want to hire me, my agents who I might want to work with smaller things like that within my industry that I've been really, really nervous for.

Even if it's five people,

because it feels like the stakes are higher.

Even sometimes on Zoom calls with new people, I get really anxious because it's like a new person.

I don't know what to expect.

And I think a lot of the time it's like that unexpected and that pre-anxiety.

But as you're kind of saying, the more you do something, the more you feel comfortable with it.

Okay, next one.