Kim

I don't know if it's about finding what it is as much as feeling the confidence to try that new thing.

Right.

And also life isn't linear.

So it doesn't matter whether you did it when you were 20 versus now.

You're still allowed.

Give yourself that permission to try something new.

Right.

I want to move to a new city where I don't know anyone but I'm afraid of being lonely.

Is loneliness better than staying stuck?

Right, or in the same city, but find a new community.

Maybe it's the people, maybe it's the activities, or your job, or there's a lot of other factors before relocating.

That said, if you have ties to this new place or whatever, or well, I guess, yeah, I would say to try it.

And I also think that feeling of loneliness can be really temporary and then you'll get past it and then you'll be happy that you made the switch.

So I think just weigh up what the factors are in your life.

I ended a relationship that felt safe but stagnant.

Now I'm questioning if I made a mistake starting over.

It feels terrifying.

How do you trust your decision?

Yeah.

And also if you do break up, like just because you miss them, it doesn't mean that it was a wrong decision.