Kimberley Gallagher

And that's sometimes where I can, although I'm really cool and calm and collected, like sometimes that mama bear energy will come out and I'll be like, no, like if you'd listened to the whole thing or done all that, like, you know, prove myself right.

And he said, oh, Kimberly, there is one option where you can just dip your shoulder and let the shade past you and go,

That's not my shade.

That's yours.

Oh, so powerful.

And after he said that, there was something a week later that was written, you know, on somebody's Instagram about me.

And normally I would have been really upset about it.

And I actually just sort of went, oh.

that's what he was talking about so please don't think it's easy for me to not do that but if like and it will test you all of these things will come up your worst fears will come up about what it is you've got to let go of if it's a person you'll probably get a message from them this weekend or something will remind you of them you go oh

should I reach out it's like a test to go are you really ready to let go and so that for me with that person saying something online for me was that test to go can you really handle it can you handle the truth can you handle what's going on out there and I'm like yeah I can actually I still have to work on it I don't find it easy but letting go of those versions of yourself the other thing is like your wardrobe how much of your wardrobe represents your life now

I love that you said this.

It's so important.

And it's also pictures.

It's stuff on your bookshelf, like from previous jobs.

And have you still got a lanyard from a job that you know you'll never go back to?

Yeah.

All of those random things that you like.

Oh, well, it's a nice memory.

I know I used to work at Bootshead office in Nottingham.

I don't need my lanyard to show me that I used to work there because I'm not going back there.