Konstantin Kisin

but I would not be okay for my future children to be ranked and reviewed or yeah, something like a proposal, like an intimate moment.

I don't want to offer that up to strangers.

And so I think the message I'm trying to say to girls is you can commodify your work, but be very careful commodifying your actual self and your private life because it's the one haven you have from all of this madness.

And once you offer a tiny bit up,

So I always say, like, if you post one boyfriend, people will then ask, where's he gone?

So then you have to explain the breakup.

If you post one opinion, people will ask for updates.

And then once you've done that, they'll ask for other opinions.

And so once you give a little bit, you'll be expected to give more and more because you are now a TV show.

You're a character and they're expecting things from you.

Otherwise, they'll just scroll for someone else.

I don't know.

Yeah, I think it was difficult for me to give really direct solutions because I'm struggling with all of it.

And I say throughout the book, you know, I'm not an expert in these things.

I just have felt them all very intimately and know them so well.

And I also think it's difficult to come across like you're lecturing and saying, well, I'm so much better than you guys, which I've struggled with everything in it.

But I give some advice, especially around becoming a product.

So something I would say to girls is to notice when, to notice what you're being sold rather than what you're being told.

So first of all, to think about how you actually feel.

So a lot of these marketing strategies, they'll say things like social media will make you feel connected and Facetune will make you feel confident.