Kristen

He'll make, like, racial remarks and, like, misogynistic remarks towards, like, me, other women.

Hey, John, how are you?

You know, hanging by a thread.

Yeah, all good.

Yeah, so I called.

I would just appreciate some maybe guidance or advice on how to ask my husband to go back to couples counseling with me after he made it clear he will not do it again.

Um...

I just see a big change in him and I just don't see how we can move forward in our marriage if we don't talk to somebody about it.

I've noticed like in the past few years, maybe a year and a half or so, just like

he's changed a lot as far as like he'll make like racial remarks and like misogynistic remarks towards like me, other women, um, like anti-Semitic remarks towards me.

Uh, it's in front of our kids.

Um, and I just, do you have Jewish heritage?

I can't do it anymore.

Uh, I'm sorry.

Say that again.

Um, I, I have, um, ancestry in it, but it's not, I, it's not like, uh, I grew up in the faith or anything.

Yeah, I know.

And it just like, it,

it wasn't like this.

Um, he's always been a colorful guy, but like, it's never been like, like this.