Kristen

I'd have an unrepaired tear, but I could function. Basically, I'd be okay. And if in the future I decided that I wanted to go under and have it repaired, I could. She was the only one that extended compassion in that moment and said, you know what? I think you've been through enough already. I don't think it's a bad idea just to let it go. Reassess months from now, years from now, potentially.

I'd have an unrepaired tear, but I could function. Basically, I'd be okay. And if in the future I decided that I wanted to go under and have it repaired, I could. She was the only one that extended compassion in that moment and said, you know what? I think you've been through enough already. I don't think it's a bad idea just to let it go. Reassess months from now, years from now, potentially.

I'd have an unrepaired tear, but I could function. Basically, I'd be okay. And if in the future I decided that I wanted to go under and have it repaired, I could. She was the only one that extended compassion in that moment and said, you know what? I think you've been through enough already. I don't think it's a bad idea just to let it go. Reassess months from now, years from now, potentially.

She's like, it's not going to inhibit you from all the things that probably people think of. You just will have an unrepaired tear. And that's just the way it is. And I trusted her to this day. It's unrepaired. and it did not pose issues with my second baby. I do have scar tissue there that I had to go through pelvic therapy PT for.

She's like, it's not going to inhibit you from all the things that probably people think of. You just will have an unrepaired tear. And that's just the way it is. And I trusted her to this day. It's unrepaired. and it did not pose issues with my second baby. I do have scar tissue there that I had to go through pelvic therapy PT for.

She's like, it's not going to inhibit you from all the things that probably people think of. You just will have an unrepaired tear. And that's just the way it is. And I trusted her to this day. It's unrepaired. and it did not pose issues with my second baby. I do have scar tissue there that I had to go through pelvic therapy PT for.

I would have gone through anyways, but that scar tissue did pose some problems in the fact that it's a little more tender. We had a date scheduled to come into Origins the day that I was supposed to go in and meet with Origins. I went to go get the second opinion. My head was spinning. I was like, time is of the essence.

I would have gone through anyways, but that scar tissue did pose some problems in the fact that it's a little more tender. We had a date scheduled to come into Origins the day that I was supposed to go in and meet with Origins. I went to go get the second opinion. My head was spinning. I was like, time is of the essence.

I would have gone through anyways, but that scar tissue did pose some problems in the fact that it's a little more tender. We had a date scheduled to come into Origins the day that I was supposed to go in and meet with Origins. I went to go get the second opinion. My head was spinning. I was like, time is of the essence.

And so I canceled the meeting with Origins and said that I've had some complications come up. I'm not going to be able to meet with you guys today, but that I'd like to find another time. She said, no problem. We're here for you when you need us. Reach back out when it's time and we'll put something on the books.

And so I canceled the meeting with Origins and said that I've had some complications come up. I'm not going to be able to meet with you guys today, but that I'd like to find another time. She said, no problem. We're here for you when you need us. Reach back out when it's time and we'll put something on the books.

And so I canceled the meeting with Origins and said that I've had some complications come up. I'm not going to be able to meet with you guys today, but that I'd like to find another time. She said, no problem. We're here for you when you need us. Reach back out when it's time and we'll put something on the books.

I reached back out November 2nd and said I was interested, and I've never gotten a response to this day. Which was probably a good thing, honestly, because knowing what I know now and having learned stuff, maybe it was for the best. I think that I could have been level-headed. I didn't want to go in and have them... gaslight me, to be quite frank.

I reached back out November 2nd and said I was interested, and I've never gotten a response to this day. Which was probably a good thing, honestly, because knowing what I know now and having learned stuff, maybe it was for the best. I think that I could have been level-headed. I didn't want to go in and have them... gaslight me, to be quite frank.

I reached back out November 2nd and said I was interested, and I've never gotten a response to this day. Which was probably a good thing, honestly, because knowing what I know now and having learned stuff, maybe it was for the best. I think that I could have been level-headed. I didn't want to go in and have them... gaslight me, to be quite frank.

I felt like it was definitely a meeting for them to tell me all the ways that my labor went wrong, cover their behinds. I have the strong hunch that that's what the meeting would have been. I have moved on since then and had another baby, but that nightmare of an experience still hangs on in my mind.

I felt like it was definitely a meeting for them to tell me all the ways that my labor went wrong, cover their behinds. I have the strong hunch that that's what the meeting would have been. I have moved on since then and had another baby, but that nightmare of an experience still hangs on in my mind.

I felt like it was definitely a meeting for them to tell me all the ways that my labor went wrong, cover their behinds. I have the strong hunch that that's what the meeting would have been. I have moved on since then and had another baby, but that nightmare of an experience still hangs on in my mind.

I feel like I did not have full knowledge of what I was putting myself into and the danger that I was getting into. But really, I shouldn't have been in that danger because I was told something that wasn't actually true. I was putting my faith in people who obviously didn't have my best interests at heart, even though they claimed to. Was it more malicious negligence?

I feel like I did not have full knowledge of what I was putting myself into and the danger that I was getting into. But really, I shouldn't have been in that danger because I was told something that wasn't actually true. I was putting my faith in people who obviously didn't have my best interests at heart, even though they claimed to. Was it more malicious negligence?