Kristin Cavallari

And this is what's going to happen.

And I remember a couple of years saying, this is the beginning of the ebbs and flows of friendships until they graduate high school.

Like it just is what it is.

One minute they're going to be friends and the next minute they're not.

It just is what it is.

That's part of growing up.

And I do not agree with parents bailing their kids out of every situation, whether it's friend drama, sports stuff.

We have dealt with some sports stuff.

But I just think at the end of the day, we have to let our kids fall on their asses.

That's the only way they're going to learn how to pick themselves up.

And my kids fight, you know, and it's hard.

Our dynamic at our house is the boys are pretty hard on Sailor.

I will say it's typically the boys ganging up on Sailor.

But Sailor is also my toughest kid and she can handle it.

And I mean, most of the time she's the one starting it, actually.

And I used to break them up and get in the middle.

And honestly, I've also kind of gotten to the point where I'm like, if you are going to like figure it out, like, OK, hash it out a little bit.

And I have found when I step away and I don't get in the middle of my kids bullshit all the time.

it works itself out so much quicker than when I'm like, you guys stop like pulling each other.

Like, it's just fine.