Kristin Cavallari

You guys want to talk shit to each other, then beat the hell out of each other.

Figure it out.

Like, I don't know what to tell you.

They don't actually beat the hell out of each other, but they're, I mean, they do sometimes get a little physical, but I have noticed, I'm telling you, when you don't get in the middle of it and you kind of let them work out their own shit, it resolves much, much quicker.

I don't know.

The sports stuff is... And I want to be careful what I say because obviously this is a public podcast and I see these people all the time at school, you know, and games and stuff.

So I have to tread lightly.

But what I have told my boys...

And Sailor just started volleyball.

She used to ride horses, but now she is playing volleyball.

This is her first team sport, which is very exciting.

But the reason I say my boys is because I haven't had to have conversations with Sailor yet about this kind of stuff.

But my boys, when something happens and let's say maybe they're not playing as much or there's some competitiveness, right, on the team, my advice to my boys is always...

is this.

Sometimes it's good to have a little fire because it's good to have something to work towards.

And the fire is good sometimes because it will make you play harder.

It will make you try harder.

And at the end of the day, all you can do is focus on yourself.

Don't compare yourself to anyone else.

Only compare yourself to yourself.