Kristin Cavallari

I think anyways, I know sometimes I can grow, but I, I always know pretty immediately if there's chemistry and chemistry is not something you question. It's like, it's either there or it's not. And you just know that from being together. So the whole point of these conversations, right. Is to see if you're compatible.

I think anyways, I know sometimes I can grow, but I, I always know pretty immediately if there's chemistry and chemistry is not something you question. It's like, it's either there or it's not. And you just know that from being together. So the whole point of these conversations, right. Is to see if you're compatible.

I think you can totally ask someone if they've ever been cheated on, cheated on someone, you know, I think that those are questions to see again. Cause I also, I think you can have a guy say, Hey, yes, I have cheated on a girlfriend, but you know what? That's something that I've had to work on. That's not who I am anymore. It's not something I'm proud of, but I definitely did do it.

I think you can totally ask someone if they've ever been cheated on, cheated on someone, you know, I think that those are questions to see again. Cause I also, I think you can have a guy say, Hey, yes, I have cheated on a girlfriend, but you know what? That's something that I've had to work on. That's not who I am anymore. It's not something I'm proud of, but I definitely did do it.

Like that to me is a green flag. a guy who can be honest and that's taking accountability. And I do think people can change. I do. I think people only change if they want to change.

Like that to me is a green flag. a guy who can be honest and that's taking accountability. And I do think people can change. I do. I think people only change if they want to change.

And I think a lot of times the way people change is something has to happen where they're almost forced to change or they started doing the work on themselves and that made them change, you know, which is typically what I've seen. And that to me is great. And that's what I'm saying.

And I think a lot of times the way people change is something has to happen where they're almost forced to change or they started doing the work on themselves and that made them change, you know, which is typically what I've seen. And that to me is great. And that's what I'm saying.

Like if you have a past and you were maybe not a good person at one point in time, but now you've done the work on yourself, you've gotten your shit together and you're a different person like that to me is that's great. I love that. I love someone who's done the work because by the way, I always haven't been the best person either.

Like if you have a past and you were maybe not a good person at one point in time, but now you've done the work on yourself, you've gotten your shit together and you're a different person like that to me is that's great. I love that. I love someone who's done the work because by the way, I always haven't been the best person either.

I had to do a lot of work and grow up and really take a hard look in the mirror. So I respect anyone who is willing to go down that path because it's not an easy one. Okay, she wants me to meet her family after a month. I'm not ready yet and it's causing issues. So a month is fast. I mean, I get that. That's really fast to go and meet someone's family.

I had to do a lot of work and grow up and really take a hard look in the mirror. So I respect anyone who is willing to go down that path because it's not an easy one. Okay, she wants me to meet her family after a month. I'm not ready yet and it's causing issues. So a month is fast. I mean, I get that. That's really fast to go and meet someone's family.

You don't really know someone for like six months, I think. And I think if it's causing issues... Well, everything is about communication. I think it needs to have a soft approach and just say, listen, I am flattered that you want me to meet your family and I would love to eventually meet your family. I'm just feeling like it's maybe happening a little too quickly for my comfort.

You don't really know someone for like six months, I think. And I think if it's causing issues... Well, everything is about communication. I think it needs to have a soft approach and just say, listen, I am flattered that you want me to meet your family and I would love to eventually meet your family. I'm just feeling like it's maybe happening a little too quickly for my comfort.

you know, a month is moving very fast. And I'm not saying that I don't want to meet your family or that I'm not crazy about you. But I would love if we could push that off just a little bit. And if someone can't be receptive to that and understand where you're coming from, then I don't think that they're the right person. You want someone who can understand your stance and your place as well. And

you know, a month is moving very fast. And I'm not saying that I don't want to meet your family or that I'm not crazy about you. But I would love if we could push that off just a little bit. And if someone can't be receptive to that and understand where you're coming from, then I don't think that they're the right person. You want someone who can understand your stance and your place as well. And

that is moving fast. If it was a year, I would be like, you need to go meet the family. Like, what are you doing? Cause then I would think maybe you're not serious about this person. And so, but a month is to that sort of a red flag. I think it should be for you. Honestly, if she can't, this was from a guy.

that is moving fast. If it was a year, I would be like, you need to go meet the family. Like, what are you doing? Cause then I would think maybe you're not serious about this person. And so, but a month is to that sort of a red flag. I think it should be for you. Honestly, if she can't, this was from a guy.

I think if someone can't understand your perspective as well, that's also not a good thing. And so... I realize she's the one who's upset and that's why it's causing issues, but maybe that's an issue for you, right? And that's okay too. Again, this is why we date people. This is why we don't get married after a month because you don't know somebody for the first six months.

I think if someone can't understand your perspective as well, that's also not a good thing. And so... I realize she's the one who's upset and that's why it's causing issues, but maybe that's an issue for you, right? And that's okay too. Again, this is why we date people. This is why we don't get married after a month because you don't know somebody for the first six months.