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Kristin Cavallari

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
1062 total appearances

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Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

And that's the best place to be. Having that strength, digging deep, having that strength, knowing ultimately what's right for you is huge. That's huge. And I applaud you for that. And just know it's not going to be easy, but you will get through it. I have spent four years on a healing journey. I am now 40 and finding it hard to meet anyone normal. I know what you mean.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

And that's the best place to be. Having that strength, digging deep, having that strength, knowing ultimately what's right for you is huge. That's huge. And I applaud you for that. And just know it's not going to be easy, but you will get through it. I have spent four years on a healing journey. I am now 40 and finding it hard to meet anyone normal. I know what you mean.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

Once you've done the work, it's really hard to connect with people who have not. So I think a big part of the healing journey. healing journey slash spiritual journey is realizing that not everyone is where you are and that's okay. And it's meeting people where they're at. And I think a lot of times when you have done the work, you can actually be an expander for someone else.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

Once you've done the work, it's really hard to connect with people who have not. So I think a big part of the healing journey. healing journey slash spiritual journey is realizing that not everyone is where you are and that's okay. And it's meeting people where they're at. And I think a lot of times when you have done the work, you can actually be an expander for someone else.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

And you can bring a lot of that knowledge and that light to other people's lives, which I actually think is a really special thing. But it can also be difficult when you're trying to connect with someone romantically if they haven't. And I think it's okay to say that you don't want to get into a romantic relationship with someone who hasn't done the work. I... I think that's perfectly okay.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

And you can bring a lot of that knowledge and that light to other people's lives, which I actually think is a really special thing. But it can also be difficult when you're trying to connect with someone romantically if they haven't. And I think it's okay to say that you don't want to get into a romantic relationship with someone who hasn't done the work. I... I think that's perfectly okay.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

I am in that place in my life right now because I don't connect to someone who hasn't done the work and that's okay. And they're at a different place on their journey. We're all in different stages of our own personal journey. And that can be great. And it can also be okay to have boundaries for yourself about what you're looking for.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

I am in that place in my life right now because I don't connect to someone who hasn't done the work and that's okay. And they're at a different place on their journey. We're all in different stages of our own personal journey. And that can be great. And it can also be okay to have boundaries for yourself about what you're looking for.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

And I think you have to get really serious and clear about what you want. And I think the universe will send you people that are really close to be like, okay, I like this about him. I don't like that. But I like all these other things. And I think it's okay to say, I'm waiting for my perfect. I am waiting for my... I am doing that right now, you guys. I am waiting for my perfect.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

And I think you have to get really serious and clear about what you want. And I think the universe will send you people that are really close to be like, okay, I like this about him. I don't like that. But I like all these other things. And I think it's okay to say, I'm waiting for my perfect. I am waiting for my... I am doing that right now, you guys. I am waiting for my perfect.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

And I have been... Really close, really close. But each time I date someone who has these really important things to me, like someone who has done the work, the depth is there, you know, all these things. I just I know, OK, it's not him, but it just means I'm that much closer to finding the one.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

And I have been... Really close, really close. But each time I date someone who has these really important things to me, like someone who has done the work, the depth is there, you know, all these things. I just I know, OK, it's not him, but it just means I'm that much closer to finding the one.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

And I'm a big believer in that, in that the universe is going to put things in your face to be like, do you like this? Is this what you're looking for? It's really close. We're really close. So keep going. But then I also want this. you know, just getting really clear and honest with yourself about what you want and standing firm in that.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

And I'm a big believer in that, in that the universe is going to put things in your face to be like, do you like this? Is this what you're looking for? It's really close. We're really close. So keep going. But then I also want this. you know, just getting really clear and honest with yourself about what you want and standing firm in that.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

And it's okay to wait for that for your perfect, for your perfect. Your perfect is different than my perfect. It's different than Sally's perfect and Jennifer's perfect. Everyone has a different perfect and there is no such thing as perfect, but you know what I'm saying. That's why, I mean, I've been single. I'm going to say single. Obviously, I've, you know, dated and whatnot.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

And it's okay to wait for that for your perfect, for your perfect. Your perfect is different than my perfect. It's different than Sally's perfect and Jennifer's perfect. Everyone has a different perfect and there is no such thing as perfect, but you know what I'm saying. That's why, I mean, I've been single. I'm going to say single. Obviously, I've, you know, dated and whatnot.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

But I've been single. I had a boyfriend. You guys all saw it. I've essentially been single for five years and it's because I am waiting. Well, it's because I had to do a lot of work on myself. First of all, I had to get serious, but now it's because I'm waiting for my perfect and I'm not settling. And I know he's out there. I know what I'm looking for is out there.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

But I've been single. I had a boyfriend. You guys all saw it. I've essentially been single for five years and it's because I am waiting. Well, it's because I had to do a lot of work on myself. First of all, I had to get serious, but now it's because I'm waiting for my perfect and I'm not settling. And I know he's out there. I know what I'm looking for is out there.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

And I know that I'm looking for the 0.001%. But he's out there. And I'm not going to stop until I find him. And I'm getting really damn close. I'm getting really close. And I want all of you guys to... also wait for your perfect. Cause it's not worth it. Not to, it's not wait for your soulmate. And I think we can have multiple soulmates, but wait for, wait for your perfect, your perfect one.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Wouldn't It Be Easier If We Could Pick Who We Love? โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 2

And I know that I'm looking for the 0.001%. But he's out there. And I'm not going to stop until I find him. And I'm getting really damn close. I'm getting really close. And I want all of you guys to... also wait for your perfect. Cause it's not worth it. Not to, it's not wait for your soulmate. And I think we can have multiple soulmates, but wait for, wait for your perfect, your perfect one.