Kristin Cavallari

And I think it's OK, I guess.

OK, if let's say that you were texting and you asked him a question and he didn't respond for over 24 hours.

I think that's a red flag.

However, if you guys are texting and the conversation just sort of has a lull, like it doesn't necessarily require a response.

And then 24 hours later, he texts you.

I think that is perfectly okay.

And in fact, I think that's kind of healthy.

I think that's actually a good thing.

which a couple of years ago, you guys, that would have made me a little nervous.

Let's say not, maybe not nervous, but I would have been like, oh my God, did I say something wrong?

Well, okay.

Yeah.

Nervous, nervous, anxious.

I guess is that an anxious attachment style where now in my more healed, calmed, nervous system.

And when I've had a little more experience with this, I've realized that's a good thing.

That is a good thing.

And we do want to be with guys who are busy and have a life, even if they don't have kids, you know, they're working and they're doing things.

We don't want a guy who's texting us all the time.

But I think it's, I think, I think you trust your gut on this.

First of all, I think, you know, we all know you guys, we all know, we all know.