Kristin Cavallari
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Having been in the dating world for five years and hearing y'all's stories and the issues you're having, it honestly makes me feel a lot better. It gives me a lot of peace because these are all universal things. So... Let's have some fun. Let's get into it. Okay. Let's start with the kind of the dating apps and stuff. So it seems like everyone is sort of over dating apps, which totally get.
Having been in the dating world for five years and hearing y'all's stories and the issues you're having, it honestly makes me feel a lot better. It gives me a lot of peace because these are all universal things. So... Let's have some fun. Let's get into it. Okay. Let's start with the kind of the dating apps and stuff. So it seems like everyone is sort of over dating apps, which totally get.
I understand that. The one dating app that I did was I was on Raya last fall for... Probably four months or so. And I only went on four dates from it. I would say all really good guys, though. I had actually met one of them previously, like 15 years prior. So we reconnected on there. I met... three new people on Raya. And one of the guys I went out with was a really good guy.
I understand that. The one dating app that I did was I was on Raya last fall for... Probably four months or so. And I only went on four dates from it. I would say all really good guys, though. I had actually met one of them previously, like 15 years prior. So we reconnected on there. I met... three new people on Raya. And one of the guys I went out with was a really good guy.
I can honestly say a really solid guy. And the other two were meh, but that's fine. You know, they all can't be winners. But one of the questions I got was about Raya. And if, is Raya a glorified hookup site? Is any guy really seriously looking for a relationship on Raya? And what I will tell you is, yeah, I think there are guys on there looking for relationships.
I can honestly say a really solid guy. And the other two were meh, but that's fine. You know, they all can't be winners. But one of the questions I got was about Raya. And if, is Raya a glorified hookup site? Is any guy really seriously looking for a relationship on Raya? And what I will tell you is, yeah, I think there are guys on there looking for relationships.
I think I don't have experience on any other dating apps. But my experience on Raya is, first of all, it's actually not that great. I didn't... There weren't a lot of options is really kind of what I saw. So after I guess I had been through everybody, they start filtering all the same people to you again. And so what I realized in...
I think I don't have experience on any other dating apps. But my experience on Raya is, first of all, it's actually not that great. I didn't... There weren't a lot of options is really kind of what I saw. So after I guess I had been through everybody, they start filtering all the same people to you again. And so what I realized in...
three months, I guess, maybe even sooner than that was that, oh, the pool is actually not that big. And the issue with Raya is they will give you the couple people that are in your city, but they're giving you people in London and Switzerland and Australia. And you're like, that's great. But when am I going to go meet fucking Ken from Australia? Like that's not realistic. And
three months, I guess, maybe even sooner than that was that, oh, the pool is actually not that big. And the issue with Raya is they will give you the couple people that are in your city, but they're giving you people in London and Switzerland and Australia. And you're like, that's great. But when am I going to go meet fucking Ken from Australia? Like that's not realistic. And
So that's where I got annoyed with it. And I went on a couple of dates. Let's see. I went on the three of the dates I went on. Well, I guess all four of the guys I went out with had a connection to LA. Two of them weren't living in LA at the time, but they had lived there. And I think one of them ended up moving back to LA. But I don't know.
So that's where I got annoyed with it. And I went on a couple of dates. Let's see. I went on the three of the dates I went on. Well, I guess all four of the guys I went out with had a connection to LA. Two of them weren't living in LA at the time, but they had lived there. And I think one of them ended up moving back to LA. But I don't know.
Yeah, I didn't think that there were a lot of great options. And here's my other issue with dating apps is that... Men are not good in photos. I will stand by that till the day I die. And again, I mean, everything is about chemistry. It's about a connection you have with someone and you only know that by meeting them in person.
Yeah, I didn't think that there were a lot of great options. And here's my other issue with dating apps is that... Men are not good in photos. I will stand by that till the day I die. And again, I mean, everything is about chemistry. It's about a connection you have with someone and you only know that by meeting them in person.
I think someone on paper can be incredible and they can have all the same interests as you. But if there's no chemistry, it doesn't matter. So that's why I think dating apps are tricky or any online dating really. And so that's why I have vowed in 2025 to meet someone in real life. And that's why I think other people are now feeling the same way. But I will always say Raya is
I think someone on paper can be incredible and they can have all the same interests as you. But if there's no chemistry, it doesn't matter. So that's why I think dating apps are tricky or any online dating really. And so that's why I have vowed in 2025 to meet someone in real life. And that's why I think other people are now feeling the same way. But I will always say Raya is
I guess no different than any other dating app except for now everyone thinks because they had to be accepted, there's like this false sense of coolness associated with it, which I don't like that. I don't like that at all, especially with guys. And I don't know. I didn't think there was anything special about Raya. I would not go back. Let's put it that way. And so I don't know. But okay.
I guess no different than any other dating app except for now everyone thinks because they had to be accepted, there's like this false sense of coolness associated with it, which I don't like that. I don't like that at all, especially with guys. And I don't know. I didn't think there was anything special about Raya. I would not go back. Let's put it that way. And so I don't know. But okay.
So then other questions were, oh, but I know, but to answer that, that question though, I do think there are people on there looking for a relationship. I mean, I do, I think it just, I think it just takes the right person. Obviously I think guys will be fuck boys until they meet someone they don't want to do that to, or that they want to settle down for. And I think that's any dating app.
So then other questions were, oh, but I know, but to answer that, that question though, I do think there are people on there looking for a relationship. I mean, I do, I think it just, I think it just takes the right person. Obviously I think guys will be fuck boys until they meet someone they don't want to do that to, or that they want to settle down for. And I think that's any dating app.