Kristin Cavallari

Whatever it is that you guys enjoy doing together, I think it's really important that you make that effort because all of a sudden you will wake up and it will be three months since you guys have had a conversation, the two of you, without little kids around or felt really connected.

I just think it is so important.

I think getting out of routine is important when you have little kids.

I think...

Changing things up, whatever that is, so that it can feel kind of new and exciting.

Maybe you go to a really fun restaurant that's new that you guys have heard about.

Or maybe you go to a fun coffee.

You could go to a coffee shop in a different in a town over like just doing things that change it up, I think is really important.

After 15 years divorcing a narcissist, he's now Santa Claus dad.

How to not react.

I mean, this is textbook.

They all do this.

So divorcing a narcissist is going to test your patience in every way imaginable.

Right now, you're playing the long game.

Right now, your job is to not react as hard as it is.

It is to find some fucking peace one way or another.

Your job right now is to focus on you.

Let the kids have fun.

Let him be Santa Claus dad.

Let him do his thing.