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Kristin Cavallari

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
1062 total appearances

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Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

But I think when you've gotten to know this guy and he seems like a good person and it's someone that you want to continue to see and it's getting to that point where like, you know, that sleeping together is coming. Then I think you say I think you just sit down and it's you don't you don't do it right before you're about to have sex.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

But I think when you've gotten to know this guy and he seems like a good person and it's someone that you want to continue to see and it's getting to that point where like, you know, that sleeping together is coming. Then I think you say I think you just sit down and it's you don't you don't do it right before you're about to have sex.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

It needs to be like you need to make him dinner at your house or something and, you know, tell him during dinner or something. And just I think you say like, hey, I have to tell you something. You know, when I was 25, I, you know, dated a guy who gave me herpes and I'm just making this up, obviously. It's whatever your situation is. And it's something that I've had to live with.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

It needs to be like you need to make him dinner at your house or something and, you know, tell him during dinner or something. And just I think you say like, hey, I have to tell you something. You know, when I was 25, I, you know, dated a guy who gave me herpes and I'm just making this up, obviously. It's whatever your situation is. And it's something that I've had to live with.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

And this is my situation, basically. And I think any good guy is going to respect that and realize how difficult having that conversation is and respect you for it. I have had a couple of guys actually tell me that they... have cold sores on their mouth, which is a little bit different, but you know, similar, same, you know, basically the same thing.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

And this is my situation, basically. And I think any good guy is going to respect that and realize how difficult having that conversation is and respect you for it. I have had a couple of guys actually tell me that they... have cold sores on their mouth, which is a little bit different, but you know, similar, same, you know, basically the same thing.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

And how they told me was, was basically just that. And they, they, they waited. They didn't tell me at first, which actually they definitely kissed me and then told me, but that's okay. Again, this is a little bit different. And then they just... They told me, you know? And I know that those conversations are very difficult.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

And how they told me was, was basically just that. And they, they, they waited. They didn't tell me at first, which actually they definitely kissed me and then told me, but that's okay. Again, this is a little bit different. And then they just... They told me, you know? And I know that those conversations are very difficult.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

And I really respect someone who's going to be honest with me rather than me just finding out later, you know? So... And if the guy is kind of a dick about it, well, then he is not the one. Clearly, he is not the one. I think I'm going to be potentially wrong on this statistic, but I think like one in three people have herpes. A lot of people have herpes. And so... I don't know.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

And I really respect someone who's going to be honest with me rather than me just finding out later, you know? So... And if the guy is kind of a dick about it, well, then he is not the one. Clearly, he is not the one. I think I'm going to be potentially wrong on this statistic, but I think like one in three people have herpes. A lot of people have herpes. And so... I don't know.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

I don't think you should be ashamed by it. Obviously someone gave it to you. You know, I think the most important thing is being really careful and you not spreading it, you know, as much control over that as you have. And I think by doing that again, it's just being really honest and the right guy will not care. I can promise you that the right guy will not care.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

I don't think you should be ashamed by it. Obviously someone gave it to you. You know, I think the most important thing is being really careful and you not spreading it, you know, as much control over that as you have. And I think by doing that again, it's just being really honest and the right guy will not care. I can promise you that the right guy will not care.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

When do you usually wait to bring up in the conversation of where we are going or what we are? I don't. I don't bring it up. Well, I have. I have one time in my whole life. And it was the first guy that I dated after my divorce. And I think... Well, I did a podcast with him, Jason Walsh. He was my trainer in LA. We did a podcast episode about it. And we talked about that. But...

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

When do you usually wait to bring up in the conversation of where we are going or what we are? I don't. I don't bring it up. Well, I have. I have one time in my whole life. And it was the first guy that I dated after my divorce. And I think... Well, I did a podcast with him, Jason Walsh. He was my trainer in LA. We did a podcast episode about it. And we talked about that. But...

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

I had said to him, we were at dinner one night and it was after a couple months of us hanging out. And I was like, hey, you know, just so what are we? Are we dating? Like, what is this? That was the first time in my whole life I've ever done that.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

I had said to him, we were at dinner one night and it was after a couple months of us hanging out. And I was like, hey, you know, just so what are we? Are we dating? Like, what is this? That was the first time in my whole life I've ever done that.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

And he was like, well, just finalize your divorce and then we'll, you know, we'll figure it out, which was a nice way of basically telling me like we are not in a relationship now looking back on it. And he's still a friend and he's still in my life. And He knew that I needed to spread my wings and fly. I was not ready to be in a relationship.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

And he was like, well, just finalize your divorce and then we'll, you know, we'll figure it out, which was a nice way of basically telling me like we are not in a relationship now looking back on it. And he's still a friend and he's still in my life. And He knew that I needed to spread my wings and fly. I was not ready to be in a relationship.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

And honestly, that was one of the best things he ever did for me. Thank God. If you want to hear all about that story, you can go watch the episode with him. But I really take the stance of when a guy is ready, he's going to ask you. And I know girls who have made it official and they're still together and things work out and it's all great. I mean, the girl can do it.

Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari
Go On The Ice Cream Date โ€” Dating Questions Pt. 1

And honestly, that was one of the best things he ever did for me. Thank God. If you want to hear all about that story, you can go watch the episode with him. But I really take the stance of when a guy is ready, he's going to ask you. And I know girls who have made it official and they're still together and things work out and it's all great. I mean, the girl can do it.